May 4, 2024

How to Help Your Homeschooled Child Pursue His Interests

The longer we homeschool, and the older my children get, and the more experience I get ‘under my belt’, the easier it seems to allow my children to pursue their own interests. Don’t get me wrong…sometimes I do still worry and wonder if I’m doing this ‘right.’  I think we all do that on occasion, no matter how long we homeschool or what our homeschooling methods are.  However, I have seen my children learn and grow so much in the areas where I have been able to let go and give them greater control and ownership.

My oldest two children absolutely love drawing!  They are now in their 2nd year of formal art classes, but before that they simply pursued it on their own.  My eldest daughter is an avid photographer.   She has a photography blog and also submits photos to National Geographic Kids-My Shot, and was even chosen as the ‘Photographer to Watch’ one week.  My eldest son pursues writing with a passion. He spends a lot of time planning and writing fiction stories and is considering participating in National Novel Writing Month.

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Are you wondering how to facilitate your child’s learning through his interests?  Here are a few ideas for you that I think will help!

Ways Your Child Can Pursue His Interests

  • Does your child want to learn to draw? Allow him or her to check out books from the library on ‘How-to Draw_____.’  There is an almost unlimited supply of these books available to teach your child how to draw dinosaurs, cars, cats, dragons, people, faces, birds, buildings, and so much more.  Utilize art classes through a local art studio or via your homeschool co-op.  Perhaps you are an artist and can help your child learn this skill yourself.
  • If your child has a strong interest in writing, purchase several special notebooks that he can use just for this.  He may take notes, write shorts stories, create outlines for stories, draw illustrations that he wants to use with some of his stories. He can use these notebooks to help get his ideas out of his head and down on paper to see it!  Using the computer to write is also valid.  This will teach your child how to type, but is also sometimes easier for those kiddos who want to write but have a bit more difficulty with the physical aspect of it.  There are also online venues such as blogs, and sometimes magazines or places such as The Bionicle Wiki, which my own son has utilized in his writing for several years now.
  • Maybe your child wants to learn how to take better photographs. You can help her by purchasing a relatively inexpensive camera (maybe for Christmas this year?). She can get to know her camera by reading the instructions and then simply practicing in your own back yard.  She will learn the best times of day to take certain types of pictures, when the wildlife is out and available as subjects, and greatly improve her skill. There are also sometimes classes available, either online or in your town, that will teach how to use a specific type of camera or more general classes that are more of a ‘Photography 101’ kind of course.  One thing we are considering is an apprenticeship.  Is there someone in your area who would be willing to spend some time with your child, teaching her how to take photos, taking her out to find the perfect location to capture wildlife, or showing her how to set up the perfect family photo shoot?  Find out and ask!
  • Maybe your children are a bit younger, like some of mine, and you don’t really know what their greatest interests are yet.  That’s okay!  I am allowing my children to experiment with different things.  My younger son is taking an art class this year.  He is learning to draw with markers.  What he has done so far has turned out pretty well, but at this point I don’t see it as being his passion.  He is also taking his first science class.  He is actually loving it, so it could be that he develops an interest there, much like his older sister has. S he loves animals and is always ready to learn new information about them.  If we have a questionabout animals, we ask her first.  I call her our ‘resident animal expert.’  One thing I do see emerging is my son’s interest in comic books and writing comics himself.  That covers several topics of interest at once: writing, drawing, and reading.  His favorite? Calvin and Hobbes, to which he was introduced by his father.

Would you like to learn just a bit more about how my son has pursued his writing?  Read Writing Center Tools for the Relaxed Homeschooler.

There are many other areas where our children seek out their own studies.  They also do have some more ‘formal’ work, though we are very relaxed here.  My hope it that, even if you are very structured and traditional in your homeschooling methods, this post has helped you to see how easy it can be to allow your children to pursue their interests. And the best part?  That counts as school, too!

I hope to see you here next week, when we will reveal our Pumpkin Painting Contest winners.  There is still time to enter, so head on over to see what it’s all about!

5 Ways to Keep Your Littlest Homeschoolers Busy

Homeschooling can be a challenge any day of the week. Add in a toddler or preschooler (or both!), and it can become downright difficult if you don’t have a plan for keeping them busy! Today I have some ideas for you that are engaging as well as educational, and should help corral those younger ones while you read aloud, help their sibling with math, or try to prepare a meal.

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5 Ways to Keep Your Littlest Homeschoolers Busy

  • Utilize blanket time (or room time/playpen time) while you read to older siblings. Place a blanket on the floor for each child; choose, or have your child help you choose, a few select toys to play with during this time (2 to 3 at most); set the timer for prescribed amount of time, 5 to 45 minutes (training will be needed, but you can teach your child to stay in one place for the full 45 minutes, perhaps longer, with a little practice).  During the learning phase, don’t expect to be able to get alot done, but after a few days to a week for most children, you will be able to get some good learning time in. Try this several times a day in short amounts, or a couple of times per day for a longer stretch of time!
  • Give your child his or her own ‘work’ to complete during your learning time. Find fun coloring or tracing pages, easy sorting activities, or books for your child to look at while you work with a sibling.  Have him sit right next to you while doing this to ensure that he stays engaged and you remain aware of what he is doing.
  • Take your lessons outside.  Set up for reading or doing math problems at a table near an area where your smaller children can safely play.  This is a great time during warmer months to introduce water or sand play, pull out the Play Dough and paints, or experiment with other messy play like shaving cream painting, tracing letters in cornmeal, or pushing trucks through a bin of corn kernels.
  • Have older children play with the younger children while you work with their sibling. If you have older children, you may find a way to schedule times for each of them to play with your younger children while you teach another sibling his English lesson or practice reading. Then switch and work with the other child.  Even younger children can be put ‘in charge’ of a sibling who is younger than them, if they are in a nearby room and have access to mama as needed.
  • Spend time with your youngest children first.  You may find it easier and more productive to take your smallest children outside, or to spend some time doing a special activity, first thing in the morning.  Your older children can use this time to complete chores and any independent work they may have (handwriting, silent reading, essays, research, typing, etc.).  This often helps the younger children be in a better frame of mind to play on their own for a bit while you spend some time with their older siblings. Their ‘tank’ has been filled and they are ready to get started with their day!

Still need some fun and practical ideas? Here are a few blog posts on the topic that you may find helpful.

How Do I Keep My Preschooler Busy? by Kendra over at Prechoolers and Peace.

Keeping Toddlers Busy During Homeschool & Baby and Toddler Busy Ideas by Karen over at Teach Beside Me.

Planning Busy Activities for Toddlers During Homeschool from Tabitha of Meet Penny.

Sensory Bottle Fun by Lara at Lara’s Place and a Cup of Grace.

Great Preschool Activities from Monique at Living Life and Learning.

Pumpkin Painting Contest and Linky Party

Last week we had fun featuring Fun Fall Recipes for the Homeschool Family, as well as looking through those that some of you added to the linky party. Thanks for joining in! I can’t wait to try some of those recipes. We have a lot of fall days left!

Recently, I took my two littlest girls out to a local pumpkin patch with a friend. They had a blast experiencing bounce houses, slides, and a corn bin to play in for the first time. I even went down one of the slides with my friend’s little girl since she had an infant and couldn’t do it herself. I was a bit nervous, but we both made it through unscathed!

One of the fun activities they enjoyed while there was pumpkin painting. Included in the price of admission was a pumpkin and there were supplies available for painting, an apron to keep our clothes clean, and a little table to place them on to dry while we played throughout the rest of the park. Here are their two pumpkins:

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Not bad for 3 and 4 year olds, eh?

I did collect a few other pumpkins and brought them home for my older kids and I to paint. My husband decided to get in on the action, too, and I’m sharing his work of art with you today.

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Didn’t he do a wonderful job?

Last week we asked you to work on your pumpkins and then come link up with us this week. Did you get your pumpkins painted? If not, or if you are just now joining us, you still have plenty of time to paint them and then enter the contest.

Pumpkin Painting Contest Rules

  • collect pumpkins
  • paint them with a fun, fall theme (family-friendly, please)
  • come back here to enter the contest
  • have fun!

This linky party will be open until November 13, 2013, and we will announce the winner on November 15, 2013, with our next linky party! If you win, we will feature your pumpkin here on November 15th!

Enter the Pumpkin Painting Contest now!

*Note: If you would like to enter but do not have your own blog, you are not left out! Please head over to At Home w/GCH on Facebook and leave your photos on the thread there. Cannot wait to see what you have for us!

 

Fun Fall Recipes for the Homeschool Family and Linky Party

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Fall has arrived in my neck of the woods. I can see hints of orange in the treetops as I sit here writing this post. Along with the fall season comes cooler weather and, for me, an urge to prepare all sorts of delicious fall dishes that we may not serve so much throughout the rest of the year.

This week I have collected several recipes for you for some fall fun in the kitchen! I’ve linked them below for you. I hope you’ll try some of them, and please do come back here to let me know how it went!

 

Fun Fall Recipes

Granny’s Perfect Pumpkin Pie: Plus a Yummy Gluten Free Option, found at Not Consumed.

Caramel Pumpkin Doughnut Hole Muffins, Perfectly Pumpkin Pancakes, Perfectly Pumpkin Waffles, and Rustic Apple-Stuffed Coffee Cake from A Nest in the Rocks.

Pumpkin Spiced Oatmeal from A Moment With Mom.

Cinnamon Orange Stovetop Potpourri from Covenant Ranch Trucking.

Gluten Free Apple Crisp found at The Chaos and the Clutter.

Dairy Free Pumpkin Bread and Mixed Berry & Cocoa Nib Oatmeal Cookies from Southern Test Kitchen.

Fall Inspired Caramel Apples found at Happy and Blessed Home.

Pumpkin Cream Cheese Muffins from Preschoolers and Peace.

 

Fun Fall Linky Party 

I hope you will link up with us this week with your own fall recipes. You’ll find the linkup listed below.

Also, next week when we host the next linky party, we have chosen a theme for you. Pumpkin Painting, and we’ll be having a contest!  Be sure to work on your pumpkins between now and then, and come link up next week to enter the contest.  Children and parents alike may enter to win.

Fall Crafts, Printables, Art, and Writing Projects for the Homeschool Family

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Last week we featured several delicious fall recipes for you to try in your homeschool. I hope you all had fun with that.  I know our family did!  Pumpkin is one of our favorite fall flavors, so we really had fun in the kitchen over the last week.

We are planning to get into some crafts soon.  I’d love to make a thankful turkey like those I’ve seen on Pinterest, or create some special kind of wreath or other decoration for our home.  I need to do a bit of research to find out just exactly what I want for that.

A good start will be found in the links I’ve posted for you below! I have collected ideas from some of my blogging friends for crafts, printables, writing ideas, and art projects.  Have fun with them as you plan your homeschool days this fall!

Fall Crafts

Pumpkin Turkeys and Easy Fall Crafts from The Chaos and the Clutter.

Candy Corn Jar Candle Holder found at Our Little Corner of the World.

The Thankful Tree from Paradise Praises.

Apple Stamping: A Fun Kid Craft found at A Moment With Mom.

 

Fall Writing Ideas

Fall picture writing prompts from In Our Write Minds.

 

Fall Printables

The November Planning Pack for Children found at The Multi Taskin Mom.

My Book of Thanks: a 25 Day Gratitude Journal for Kids from Upside Down Homeschooling.

Unit Lesson Plan|Fall Apples and Unit Lesson Plan|Fall Leaves found at Tutus & Tea Parties.

Free Fall Printable from Happy and Blessed Home.

 

Fall Art Projects

Autumn Tree Art from Campfires and Cleats.

Easy Apple Tree Painting from the Chaos and the Clutter.

 

I don’t know about you, but I am very excited about trying some of these projects!

Do you have any fun art projects, crafts, printables, or writing ideas?  Please share them in the comments below!

How to Homeschool: Self-Directed Learning

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When we began homeschooling in 2006, my children were excited about the time they then had to pursue their interests.  Honestly, so was I!  We made weekly trips to the library, we went on field trips with our homeschool group, we had play dates and park days, and we attended extra-curricular classes such as dance and wrestling.  One of the things that my oldest two loved was to check out How to Draw books from the library.  If you’ve ever found this section at the library with your child, you know that many books exist which cover how to draw cars, dinosaurs, puppies, horses, insects, people, comic book characters, and so much more!  My children were enthralled with this new interest and pursued drawing with everything they had and as often as they could.  This type of pursuit of learning is what I would call self-directed learning.  Others may call it delight-directed, child-led, or even unschooling.  In all of these cases, in my opinion, this is learning that the child pursues due to his or her interest rather than as a result of pressure or initiation by parents or teachers.

Over the years my children have continued to take an interest in art.  They have studied math, science, music, sports, literature, and more.  All have held their interest for some period of time, but none like the subject of art.  Last fall we became involved with a local co-op and my two oldest finally took their first formal art classes.  At the end of the school year, both of them were invited to join the Advanced Art Class beginning the next semester (currently ongoing) due to their skill and obvious love for drawing.  They were ecstatic, and I was very pleased for them, as well!

You may be wondering why I’ve shared all of this with you. I simply want you to see what homeschooling can be!

Yes, there are academics involved.

Yes, some days are difficult, academically as well as spiritually, physically, and emotionally.

The truth and joy, though, is that children truly can enjoy learning.  They can and will work hard to gain a skill they want to learn.

I have continued to encourage my children, if they really wanted to learn how to draw well, to keep trying.  I employ this same thought process in other areas, too.  Sometimes this helps motivate them to work towards a goal.  At other times, they decide they really aren’t that interested and do not work as hard or pursue a topic very long.  I believe that, overall, this has helped them to enjoy their homeschooling journey.  We do have some ‘musts’ in our homeschool, but we are much more relaxed than we were at the beginning.  The reason for that is because I have seen the learning take place, much of it aside from our ‘school’ assignments.  Life is a wonderful teacher, and I am now watching my children reap the rewards.

My eldest daughter is now using the skills and knowledge she has gained through her pursuit of art, and is teaching younger children.  She just held her first art class in our home today.  I enjoyed watching her work with the girls, teaching them to enjoy the pursuit of art and to take pride in their work.  Teaching this class is also allowing her to earn some money for her own expenses, including saving for a summer missions trip.  She continues to learn through life, and benefit herself and others, even while teaching and pursuing one of her loves.

I encourage you to observe your children.  What are the topics they are drawn to?  What do they spend a lot of time talking about, playing with, and researching?  Perhaps you could allow them extra time to learn more after their academic work is done, or possibly in place of it.  Allow them to grow into self-directed learners. I believe you, and they, will enjoy it as much as we have!

Did you miss our previous How to Homeschool posts? I’ve linked them below for you!

HOW do I homeschool?

How to Homeschool: Homeschooling Methods, Curriculum, and Resources

How to Homeschool: Homeschool Field Trips

This week we have linked up with The Homeschool Village. Click on the image below to go see what everyone else is sharing!

The Homeschool Village

Thanks for stopping in. Come back and join us next week for our 2nd linky party!

How to Homeschool: Homeschool Field Trips

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One thing that has been lacking in our homeschool over the years has been field trips. We have been a part of several, but not as many as I would have liked.  This has been mostly due to several moves that we have made, hence needing to take time to settle in, meet new friends, and learn the ins and outs of the homechool laws in our new state. Over the last few years we have also had two new babies and have not lived near family, so we really could not participate in field trips unless we could include the younger children, as well.  The result has been that we have become homebodies.

However, we are mostly settled into our new home in our new state, feel confident that God sent us here, and have no plans to move any time soon. So we have begun to get involved in field trips. I have even planned a couple recently, and have ideas for more. That is what I will be sharing with you today, ideas for field trips, in the hopes that they will spark some ideas in you for your area and family!

List of Homeschool Field Trip Ideas

  • Local museums
  • The library: learn about the Dewey Decimal System
  • A local science center
  • Fire station
  • Police station
  • Play at local college
  • Apple-picking
  • Pumpkin patch
  • Grocery store tour
  • Restaurant tour
  • Farmer’s Market: learn about the produce and economics, as well
  • Local craft fair
  • Potato digging
  • Artisan Chocolate Shop
  • Local T-shirt making company
  • Soda-bottling company
  • Automobile manufacturer
  • Local bakery
  • Horse or cattle ranch: learn how to care for the animals, what they eat, etc.
  • Tour of a movie theater, behind-the-scenes
  • Radio or  TV station, behind-the-scenes tour

Planning for a Homeschool Field Trip

Planning a field trip does not have to be difficult. Our family is actually going next week to take a tour of our local Chick-fil-A. All I did was send a Facebook message to the location in our city. The Director of Marketing responded quite quickly and has been very pleasant to work with in the planning!

We also visited a local artisan chocolate shop over the summer. I used the same method to contact the owners of the shop, whom I actually knew from my church, and they, also, were very excited to work with me to plan a trip. We actually ended up planning three because, well, homeschool mamas love chocolate! During our tour, we got a rundown about how they make their bars and truffles, as well as learning about the cacao bean. Oh, and we were given samples. Yum!

I encourage you to contact the owners, or possibly the Director of Marketing, for local businesses. The worst they can do is say no. And you may just be surprised when they respond with an enthusiastic “Yes!” So get to brainstorming. Feel free to start with my list above.

What are your favorite field trip ideas? List them in the comments section below!

Happy Homeschooling!

How to Homeschool: Homeschooling Methods, Curriculum, and Resources

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When I first began homeschooling I knew nothing about methods used for homeschooling.  My model was the school system and that is really all I knew!  I happened to find a curriculum the first year, for my daughter, which used a Charlotte Mason approach.  We loved it! Living books…Christ-centered…what more could I want?

This week I’m going to list some links to different methods of homeschooling, list some of the curriculum that we have used and recommend, as well as share a few resources that I still find helpful today!

Homeschooling methods

1. Charlotte Mason

What is the Charlotte Mason method?

Simply Charlotte Mason

Heart of Dakota Publishing

Ambleside Online

Living Books Curriculum

Lifetime Books & Gifts

The Charlotte Mason Way: A brand new consulting site for those interested in learning how to best implement the Charlotte Mason method in their homeschool.

2. Unschooling

What is unschooling?

Sandra Dodd

The Natural Child Project

3. Unit Studies

What is a Unit Study?

Unit Studies by Amanda Bennett

Homeschool in the Woods

4. Classical

Classical Education

Classical Homeschooling

Classical Conversations

5. Notebooking

Tutorial: What is notebooking?

Notebooking Pages

The Notebooking Fairy

6. Eclectic

What Exactly is Eclectic Homeschooling?

All of the above listed methods and many others could be used within this method of ‘eclectic’ homeschooling!

Of course, there are also other methods of homeschooling. I’ve listed just a few to start.

Favorite homeschool curricula & providers:

Apologia

The Prairie Primer

Heart of Dakota

Music 4 Little Learners

Teaching Textbooks

Polka Dot Publishing: Life of Fred

Learning Adventures

Media Angels, Inc.

Character Concepts

Lifestyle of Learning

Other recommended resources:

Unschooling Rules, Clark Aldrich

Charlotte Mason Companion, Karen Andreola

The Simplicity of Homeschooling, Vicki Goodchild

The Unschooling Handbook, Mary Griffith

The Relaxed Homeschool, Mary Hood

Wading Through the Lists

Now, this is quite a long list of companies and resources for you to work through.  My suggestion is that you begin with the homeschooling methods.  If you are new to homeschooling, or maybe you just feel you need a change, reading about the different methods will help you to figure out what kind of homeschooler you are, or perhaps the kind you would like to be.  After that, you may want to begin searching through the various other links for curriculum companies and other books and resources I’ve listed.  All of the listed curriculum and resources following are items I have used in our homeschool at some time over the last 7 years.  Many of them are favorites, such as the unschooling handbook.  Even if you have no interest in becoming an unschooler, I highly recommend this book.  It is a wonderful resource and will get you thinking about what learning can actually look like!

I do hope you have found this list of homechooling methods, curriculum, and resources helpful. Please take time to sort through them. It will be worth it, I promise!

Be sure to come back next week. I’m planning to discuss Homeschool Field Trips.

HOW do I Homeschool?

The answers to this question are infinite. There are hundreds of ways to educate your children at  home! Curriculum companies and learning resources now abound, unlike the days when the idea of home education was foreign to most parents and educators alike. Today I will tell you just a bit about how we have approached homeschooling in our family.

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A View of Homeschooling in my Family

When our family began our homeschooling journey, we were still in a very schoolish place. We were coming straight out of a private school and I expected to do school at home. I did not have anyone telling me that it could or should look any differently. So I began my search for appropriate curriculum for my children on the internet. I ended up going with a workbook type of program for my son and a Charlotte Mason, kind of a *unit study program, for my daughter.

*Click on the link for a thorough explanation of the term unit study, but this is basically studying a particular topic or time period for a specified amount of time before moving on to a different topic or time period.

“A good unit study involves learning about one topic in an interesting and engaging way that will captivate the student and make them want to learn more and continue to think about the things that they are learning.” ~Amanda Bennett

Neither I nor my son enjoyed the workbooks. I did not like the separation that it created and he didn’t either. We both felt that he was missing out on what was happening with my daughter and I. We loved the unit study! I learned alongside my daughter and I was able to see the world that opened up to her through learning to read and in being read to daily by me.

By the end of our first year of homeschooling I knew that we were not a workbook family.

We ended up using another unit study curriculum with both children the following year, and I actually included our youngest child when possible, too. It was a wonderful year! It involved a lot of work, and our home still seemed like a school many days, but we all relished our afternoon reading and Q & A times. There were days when I would choke up from the stories I was reading aloud to them, and I was so proud of my children for their participation. We all learned so much that year!

It was a time of growth for me in particular, as we had moved that year and were living  in an area where we knew absolutely no one. Our reliance on God grew. I was also learning more about what homeschooling could be. Many families love and thrive with school-at-home methods. That is wonderful! For us, it did not work well. It simply was not what I desired for my family, nor did I feel it was what God was calling me to. Near the end of my first year of homeschooling I had acquired a few booklets from Lifestyle of Learning. Little did I know it at the time, but the words within those pages would spark a change in my thinking that has grown and changed over the last 7 years. My thoughts about education are very different from what they were when I first began this journey. And God is still changing me as we continue.

Though we are not a ‘workbook’ family, that is not to say that we never use workbooks or textbooks. We have, and do. It really depends on the child, the season of our lives, and the topic about which we are trying to learn. For example, we moved and added two babies to our family between March of 2009 and October of 2010.  During that time my children did a lot of learning on their own, and used several textbooks to facilitate their learning. I didn’t even always keep up with the grading. You want to know what happened? They still excelled on their end-of-year tests! Big surprise. I can say that now, as I am more ‘seasoned’, but in the earlier years of this journey those were things that I worried about. They are valid concerns to new homechooling parents. I want to encourage you that your children are learning, even on the days when it may not seem that way. There are a multitude of ways to learn and things to learn about. Most of them are not even learned sitting at  desk listening to a lecture! So when you have a day, or even several, that you think “all is lost” and that you need to make it up, do not despair. God redeems the time!

Our family is living proof.

Now that we are entering our 8th year of homeschooling, we are planning and preparing a bit differently for our homeschooling year than we did in years past. For the first time, I asked my children what they wanted to learn about and actually ordered resources based on their answers! We will be watching dvd’s as part of our family learning this year. The topics are as varied as cooking, crafting a great sentence, and nutrition. My older three children are taking art classes each Friday at the local homeschool co-op; my younger daughters will tag along and learn to be patient while we wait on their siblings. My children will also meet new friends, play games, help prepare lunches, take care of younger siblings, continue to help maintain our home, enjoy movies and video games, utilize apps on the iPad, write posts for their own blogs, and participate in field trips and park days planned by one of the other homeschool groups in which we are involved. This is all a part of learning!

It is how we homeschool.

Next week  I will share a bit about various homeschooling methods, curriculum, and other useful resources. I hope you will join me to learn more about HOW to homeschool with Homeschooling Methods, Curriculum, and Resources.