April 25, 2024

3 Keys to Increasing Communication with Your Children About How and What They Would Like to Learn

Welcome to the fifth and final week in this series on Organizing Your Homeschool for a Brand New Year.  I’m excited to share with you today about communicating with your children regarding learning methods and topics!

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For a while after we began homeschooling, we followed a packaged curriculum and really enjoyed it. In fact, even though we don’t currently use a full packaged curriculum, I do have a favorite and may go back to it with my littlest two girls in the fall. I have such fond memories of our learning time with our books from Heart of Dakota Publishing!

When my 4th child was born, we began to move away from the full package of curriculum. I needed my children to work more independently at that time. My children were also getting a bit older and they had expressed the desire to begin learning about their individual interests more, as well. This is the plan I came up with to meet their needs.

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3 Keys to Increasing Communication with Your Children About How and What They Would Like to Learn

  1. Talk with each of your children about what he or she is interested in learning more about. Keep in mind that these things may be academic in nature, but could also include topics such as cooking, art, beadwork, photography, writing a novel, and more. The sky is the limit! You will be able to find a way to incorporate almost any topic of interest into your learning day.
  2. Take your children to the library, the local bookstore, or used curriculum sales to search for books and/or curriculum that covers their topics of interest. Alternatively, you may also peruse catalogs at home or get online together to search curriculum or other learning web sites and blogs for the perfect learning tools for your family.
  3. Once you have your materials in hand, help your child to come up with a schedule or workable plan for using them to learn as much as possible about the topics he chose.

That’s it. Try using these keys in your homeschool, see how they work for you, and please do come back here and share with me how it’s going!

Do you have tips for increasing communication with your homeschooled child? Please do share in the comments below!

4 Steps to Strewing for Education

Are you ready for Week 4 of Organizing Your Homeschool for a Brand New Year? This week we will discuss the term ‘strewing‘ and talk about how this may work for your home and learning lifestyle.

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Strewing is a word you may hear more often tossed around in unschooling or child-led learning circles. Sandra Dodd defines it as “leaving material of interest around for our children to discover.”  Aadel Bussinger offers an ebook called The Art of Strewing and it is filled with many wonderful ideas!  Aadel also offers many articles on strewing in different circumstances over at These Temporary Tents.

4 Steps to Strewing for Education

  1. Know your child.
  2. Choose items based on what you know about your child’s interests.
  3. Place the chosen item somewhere it can be easily found, or simply tell your child that you found xyz and thought they might be interested.
  4. Leave your expectations behind. It could be that your child is not interested in the game, art supplies, movie, etc. right now. However, they often will pick it up a day, weeks, or months later. The ‘art’ is in being able to allow that exploration on their own timetable.

So what does strewing look like in a child-led learning environment?

  • An exploration table with just one item or related set of items where your child may explore, engage in imaginary play, and generally learn more about these items with all of his or her senses!
  • Books left on the coffee table for children (and adults!) to pick up at their leisure to read or gaze at pictures until their hearts are content.
  • Chalk and construction paper placed where little ones will find it and create drawings and experiment with color as much or as little as they choose.
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We set this out over the holidays and our girls spent many hours playing with Joseph, Mary, and baby Jesus. I plan to set out a new toy, or otherwise fun-to-explore item, for them to enjoy every couple of weeks, or perhaps monthly.

  • An impromptu trip to the park or for a walk around the neighborhood to examine the newly fallen snow or the changing colors of the leaves.
  • A new game laid out and ready to be played with the family.
  • Watching an entire Netflix series about airplanes, World War II, dragons, and more, simply because that is what your child is ‘into’ at the time.

There are many more—and different—scenarios that could be described. The above are just a few of the scenes that have played out in my home, a few ways that I have found to easily strew and pique the interest of my children.

If you do more research via the above-linked sites, or if you get Aadel’s book, you will learn much more about what strewing looks like and glean many wonderful ideas for implementing this idea in your own homes.

Do you have ideas for strewing or encouraging child-led learning? Please share your thoughts and tips below!

Six Steps to Ridding Your Shelves of Extra Homeschool Curriculum

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Welcome back to part 2 of Organizing Your Homeschool for a Brand New Year! This week we will tackle what to do with your extra curriculum and other items that were not cleared out last week.

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Six Steps to Ridding Your Shelves of Extra Homeschool Curriculum 

  1. Determine which items you want to sell and which you would like to donate.
  2. List items on Ebay, hold a garage sale, find a local consignment shop or sale to participate in, or post them on Facebook or your blog as For Sale. Or collect your items all year and participate in your local homeschool curriculum sale at the end of the school year. Often, there are several taking place in any area.
  3. Take boxes and bags of the items you will not try to sell to your local Goodwill, or donate to a church or neighborhood family you know that could use extra clothing, toys, and books. There may be a local shelter or daycare that needs what you have.
  4. Check with local churches if you do not know of anyone in need. My church has a section on their web site for posting items needed or items being offered for sale or donation.
  5. Post a notice in your local homeschool group’s forum or in any Facebook groups you may be a part of (if allowed) about items you would like to donate to homeschool families. I often hear of or from people looking for free or low-cost items because they don’t want to spend a lot before trying, or they just don’t have the extra money to spend at the time. You have the opportunity to be a huge blessing to another homeschooling family by donating your gently used books.
  6. Another possibility is to offer your books and homeschool curriculum for loan or rent. I do not know the ins and outs of this myself, but I feel sure you could do a little research to find out more. Many families simply do not have room to store curriculum permanently, or perhaps they just don’t care to. This could be a workable solution for you and them!

Do you have more suggestions for clearing off your homeschool shelves? Please share in the comments. If you missed Part 1 of this series, please be sure to visit Organizing Your Homeschool for a Brand New Year


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Discipling Our Children at Home

Over the last several months, the teaching team at our church has been speaking about discipleship. They have taught us what a disciple is, which is basically a student; what it looks like to disciple others, which is to bring friends and family along with us on our journey with Jesus; how time, talent, and treasure are all a part of being a disciple (giving); and so much more! If you are interested in hearing the messages in this series, please listen here.

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As we began this series, and moved forward each week, I wondered whether I was discipling anyone. I am a disciple myself, a follower of Christ, and I am striving to lean in and follow Him even more carefully as the weeks and months go on. I do write for a few blogs as a contributor and on my own blog, and those could be considered a way of discipling. I pray that what I write encourages someone along their faith-walk at some point. But I kept asking myself, who am I discipling? How can I disciple someone?

Then it dawned on me.

Those I am discipling every day are my children.

You may think that is an odd realization since, as a mom in her 8th year of homeschooling, I am with my children all day, every day. Still, it took me a while. I guess I was looking outward, towards a church ministry area or leading a bible study in my neighborhood, as many of my friends and acquaintances are doing. However, in this season of my life, while I am busy homeschooling and raising my five children from ages 3 to 16, I have limited opportunities to disciple those outside of my own home. But what a ripe-for-the-harvest ‘field’ I have right here before me! Once I realized this, I was even able to encourage another friend who was asking the same questions that I had been asking.

Homeschooling. This is our ‘discipleship program’! What a blessing it is to be able to be home, to learn together, to stop academics as needed to teach biblical principles and to correct behavior, to discipline, and to disciple, as we walk the homeschooling journey together with our children.

I want to encourage you, homeschool mama, as you move through each day and especially in this holiday season—do not compare yourselves to others. God has given you very specific duties to carry out with your own children! Perhaps you can fit in some volunteer hours at church or in a shelter in your area, or in some other setting where you are able to disciple others. Maybe you were able to participate in the Christmas cookie exchange, hang hundreds of tiny lights on the exterior of your home, and bake holiday breads for 10 days straight in preparation for the local holiday bake sale.

If you cannot and did not, please do not despair.

God has you in this season right now to pour into your children. On the days when it seems too difficult, and you feel like you have nothing left, lean further into Him. He will give you the strength, the wisdom, His words to pour into and speak over your children, and to lead them just a bit closer to Him each day!

Do you have any suggestions for discipling our children? I would love to hear them, so please leave a comment below!

Christmas Crafts and Coloring Fun with Preschoolers

As we near Christmas Day, our family has finally begun to decorate our home a bit. We spent some time over the weekend putting up wreaths and digging out our ornaments in preparation for decorating our tree. One part of the excitement of Christmas for my 3 and 4 year olds has been the opportunity to make their own ornaments and decorate their own little personal tree for their room. Now, I have never considered myself to be a crafty kind of mom. However, I do what I must for my little girls, so we pulled out construction paper, scissors, plain white paper, crayons, and began creating!

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What we came up with was fairly simple.

  1. The gift you see above was simply a square with my feeble attempts at drawing a bow on top. If you are that crafty mom, then I am sure you could use pretty craft papers and cutting tools to make a much more beautiful gift than this one, but I think you at least get the idea. My children were very pleased with the result, and my 3 year old, especially, was thrilled to see “a little present” on their tree when she entered the bedroom.
  2. Next you can see that I made a tiny Holy Bible. It would have been nicer if I had used black construction paper and perhaps cut out tiny letters in gold to spell out the title. However, I was making use of the scraps we had leftover from the project immediately preceding this activity, so we ended up with a very plain Bible for the tree.
  3. This sweet little angel is the ornament of which I am most proud. I have never claimed to be an artist, but as I began to sketch, it wasn’t as difficult as I had expected. I basically drew a head attached to a choir robe, then attached one more circle up top to act as the halo (bend so it will ‘hover’ over the angel’s head). Maybe you could be a bit more creative? Use yellow construction paper or some sort of ribbon to create a pretty halo or spend some time coloring the hair. For me, just getting it done was the priority, because my little ones were more interested in hanging the items on their tree than in how ‘prettied up’ they were. I have hopes that, as the years pass, we can continue making ornaments and get a bit more elaborate with our creations. We shall see. I may become that crafty mom yet!
  4. The last ornament is a yellow star. My 3 year old adores the color yellow and stars, so this is obviously her favorite kind of ornament. I drew a 5-point star. Some of you may be able to simply cut one out of the construction paper but my attempt at that did not turn out well. A fun addition to this would be some gold glitter glue. Then your star will sparkle when any sort of light hits it!

For all of the ornaments we created, I used a simple single hole punch to create a hole at the top, and then used bread ties as hangers. That was my 4 year old’s idea. Brilliant!

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Another activity we have enjoyed is coloring together. I have always loved this particular activity, and I have made a point to sit down with all of my children at times to be a part of this bit of fun with them. Since it is the Christmas season, we have been coloring Christmas-themed pages that I created. I’ve listed those below for you, as well as a few free printables from others, in case you would like to do the same with your own children (many can also be used with older children!).

FREE Christmas Coloring Pages

Free 12 Days of Christmas Pack

FREE Printable Writing Prompt

Free Nativity PreK-K Printable Pack (Limited Time)

FREE Copy Work~ Sing Unto the Lord!

FREE Christmas PreK/K pack {Updated and Expanded}

Need more ideas for making this season fun and meaningful for your preschool children?

  • take a field trip to a Christmas tree farm
  • pick up Christmas-themed books from the local bookstore or library (try One December Night, brand new on Amazon and written by a friend of mine!)
  • bake sugar cookies and decorate (and eat!) them together
  • help your child pick out gifts for siblings or his other parent/grandparents and wrap them together
  • read the Christmas story from the Bible, discussing together how Jesus is the TRUE Gift of Christmas

Are you a crafty mom? What kinds of fun and meaningful activities do you do during this season with your children?  Please share in the comments! 

 

What Does Thankfulness Mean to You?

Today is Thanksgiving Day in the United States. Children are out of school for a few days, many people do not have to go to work (though some do), and most of us spend at least some portion of the day with extended family members. As we are in the midst of this celebration, it is a really good thing to stop and consider what it is we are celebrating.

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We all know a bit about the first Thanksgiving and how the settlers joined with the natives to enjoy a meal together. That is something to celebrate. It was how those settlers survived and how our country found its beginning! But shouldn’t we be celebrating something more?

Bible verses about thankfulness

Psalms 95: 2-3  says Let us come before him with thanksgiving and extol him with music and song.  For the LORD is the great God, the great King above all gods.

1 Timothy 4: 4-5 For everything God created is good, and nothing is to be rejected if it is received with thanksgiving,  because it is consecrated by the word of God and prayer.

Our God is great, and above all other gods. His Creation is good! We are to receive it with Thanksgiving, as it has been consecrated by Him.

What does thankfulness mean to you?

I asked some of my friends what thankfulness means to them. Here are some of the things they had to say.

Crystal says, “To me, thankfulness is about choosing to focus on our blessings and not our troubles. It’s a way of life.” Get these free printable gratitude cards to use with your children.

Stephanie offers two of her favorite quotes from others.

“If you never learned the lesson of thankfulness, begin now. Sum up your mercies; see what provision God has made for your happiness, what opportunities for your usefulness, and what advantages for your success.” ~Ida S. Taylor

“Not what we say about our blessings, but how we use them, is the true measure of our thanksgiving. “ ~ W. T. Purkiser

Learn more about Stephanie’s thoughts on thankfulness via  her post 30 Quotes About Thanksgiving and Gratitude.

Michelle is thankful for,”The closeness in my family and the dogs that drive me crazy.” Be sure to head over to visit with Michelle and read Thanksgiving Grace.

Pattis says, “A cheerful heart is good medicine, and sometimes the best medicine for a complaining spirit is speaking thanks.” Read her entire post, When the Complaining Creeps Back In.

For me, thankfulness is walked out in how I react to my children and family. It is in the way I serve others. Am I thankful for the opportunity I have to teach my children to be thankful through my actions? Am I serving with a thankful heart?

Here are some quotes from others that I found online.

O Lord, that lends me life, lend me a heart replete with thankfulness.
~ William Shakespeare

We ought to give thanks for all fortune: if it is “good,” because is it good, if “bad” because it works in us patience, humility, and the contempt of this world and the hope of our eternal country.
~ C. S. Lewis

No people on earth have more cause to be thankful than ours, and this is said reverently, in no spirit of boastfulness in our own strength, but with the gratitude to the Giver of good who has blessed us.
~ Theodore Roosevelt

Thankfulness Resources & Activities

Encouraging an Attitude of Gratitude

Last Minute Thanksgiving Fun with the Kids

one thousand gifts, about being thankful, gratitude, Eucharisteo. Ann gives a wonderful new perspective in her book; a practical view of how to remain on our knees and thank God, even through the most difficult things in our lives.

What is it that you are thankful for? Share in the comments!

 

4 Benefits to Sorting Activities for Young Children

Our first order of business today is to announce the Pumpkin Painting Contest winners! We ended up with only 2 entries, so we decided to feature both here on At Home w/  Girlfriends Coffee Hour.

1 Pumpkin Decorated for Both Halloween and Thanksgiving from Organized 31

3 Fine Motor Pumpkin Activities {Fine Motor Friday} from School Time Snippets

Thank you both so much for entering the contest. Your ideas were excellent, and I just may use them in our homeschool real soon!

Now on to our topic for the day! 

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I homeschool multiple children from pre-k, elementary, middle school, on up to high school. We read various books, complete different lessons, and participate in certain types of play, all according to the age of the child, as well as the needs of the family at the moment. Much of the time we need something to keep the little ones busy while Mommy cooks or siblings are completing independent work, or simply wanting some time to themselves. One of the activities that I have found that all of my children enjoy is sorting. They sort toys, crayons, beads, books, legos, etc. This activity is especially beneficial to young children. I’ve explained the reasons why below.

4 Benefits to Sorting Activities for Young Children

  1. Sorting activities can be used to teach organization at a young age.  Grouping items by shape, color, texture, and size are all a part of learning to organize.  Allowing your child to learn this while he is young will mean he is a step ahead of the organization game as he grows older.
  2. Sorting keeps them busy! My two little ones can sit for a very long time sorting bears, crayons, colored pencils, lids, magnetic letters, especially if it is a new activity or one they have not done recently.  My 4 year old creates bear rainbows &  bear armies, and also engages in pretend play as she sorts.  I love to listen to some of the conversations she has as she sits at our table with bears in hand.
  3. Sorting also teaches early math skills. Children can see, when they line their items up, how rows and columns are formed.  They learn to count, and often begin to add and subtract without being taught.  It comes naturally!
  4. I believe sorting also teaches responsibility. We have taken great care with our sorting bears. They are very special toys in our home and are only played with in a certain way (gently) and in certain areas (at the table or during blanket time). Since we have these ‘rules’ in place, our daughters tend to take more care with their sorting toys while playing, as well as when cleaning up afterwards.

Need more ideas for bringing sorting into your day?

Have your preschooler:

  • sort silverware
  • help you sort laundry
  • separate fruit by type, color, or size
  • sort shoes by ownership
  • sort books according to softcover or hardcover

These are just a few more ideas that I hope will be helpful to you!

Do you have a favorite sorting item in your homeschool?  What benefits have you seen come to your children through sorting?

How to Help Your Homeschooled Child Pursue His Interests

The longer we homeschool, and the older my children get, and the more experience I get ‘under my belt’, the easier it seems to allow my children to pursue their own interests. Don’t get me wrong…sometimes I do still worry and wonder if I’m doing this ‘right.’  I think we all do that on occasion, no matter how long we homeschool or what our homeschooling methods are.  However, I have seen my children learn and grow so much in the areas where I have been able to let go and give them greater control and ownership.

My oldest two children absolutely love drawing!  They are now in their 2nd year of formal art classes, but before that they simply pursued it on their own.  My eldest daughter is an avid photographer.   She has a photography blog and also submits photos to National Geographic Kids-My Shot, and was even chosen as the ‘Photographer to Watch’ one week.  My eldest son pursues writing with a passion. He spends a lot of time planning and writing fiction stories and is considering participating in National Novel Writing Month.

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Are you wondering how to facilitate your child’s learning through his interests?  Here are a few ideas for you that I think will help!

Ways Your Child Can Pursue His Interests

  • Does your child want to learn to draw? Allow him or her to check out books from the library on ‘How-to Draw_____.’  There is an almost unlimited supply of these books available to teach your child how to draw dinosaurs, cars, cats, dragons, people, faces, birds, buildings, and so much more.  Utilize art classes through a local art studio or via your homeschool co-op.  Perhaps you are an artist and can help your child learn this skill yourself.
  • If your child has a strong interest in writing, purchase several special notebooks that he can use just for this.  He may take notes, write shorts stories, create outlines for stories, draw illustrations that he wants to use with some of his stories. He can use these notebooks to help get his ideas out of his head and down on paper to see it!  Using the computer to write is also valid.  This will teach your child how to type, but is also sometimes easier for those kiddos who want to write but have a bit more difficulty with the physical aspect of it.  There are also online venues such as blogs, and sometimes magazines or places such as The Bionicle Wiki, which my own son has utilized in his writing for several years now.
  • Maybe your child wants to learn how to take better photographs. You can help her by purchasing a relatively inexpensive camera (maybe for Christmas this year?). She can get to know her camera by reading the instructions and then simply practicing in your own back yard.  She will learn the best times of day to take certain types of pictures, when the wildlife is out and available as subjects, and greatly improve her skill. There are also sometimes classes available, either online or in your town, that will teach how to use a specific type of camera or more general classes that are more of a ‘Photography 101’ kind of course.  One thing we are considering is an apprenticeship.  Is there someone in your area who would be willing to spend some time with your child, teaching her how to take photos, taking her out to find the perfect location to capture wildlife, or showing her how to set up the perfect family photo shoot?  Find out and ask!
  • Maybe your children are a bit younger, like some of mine, and you don’t really know what their greatest interests are yet.  That’s okay!  I am allowing my children to experiment with different things.  My younger son is taking an art class this year.  He is learning to draw with markers.  What he has done so far has turned out pretty well, but at this point I don’t see it as being his passion.  He is also taking his first science class.  He is actually loving it, so it could be that he develops an interest there, much like his older sister has. S he loves animals and is always ready to learn new information about them.  If we have a questionabout animals, we ask her first.  I call her our ‘resident animal expert.’  One thing I do see emerging is my son’s interest in comic books and writing comics himself.  That covers several topics of interest at once: writing, drawing, and reading.  His favorite? Calvin and Hobbes, to which he was introduced by his father.

Would you like to learn just a bit more about how my son has pursued his writing?  Read Writing Center Tools for the Relaxed Homeschooler.

There are many other areas where our children seek out their own studies.  They also do have some more ‘formal’ work, though we are very relaxed here.  My hope it that, even if you are very structured and traditional in your homeschooling methods, this post has helped you to see how easy it can be to allow your children to pursue their interests. And the best part?  That counts as school, too!

I hope to see you here next week, when we will reveal our Pumpkin Painting Contest winners.  There is still time to enter, so head on over to see what it’s all about!

5 Ways to Keep Your Littlest Homeschoolers Busy

Homeschooling can be a challenge any day of the week. Add in a toddler or preschooler (or both!), and it can become downright difficult if you don’t have a plan for keeping them busy! Today I have some ideas for you that are engaging as well as educational, and should help corral those younger ones while you read aloud, help their sibling with math, or try to prepare a meal.

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5 Ways to Keep Your Littlest Homeschoolers Busy

  • Utilize blanket time (or room time/playpen time) while you read to older siblings. Place a blanket on the floor for each child; choose, or have your child help you choose, a few select toys to play with during this time (2 to 3 at most); set the timer for prescribed amount of time, 5 to 45 minutes (training will be needed, but you can teach your child to stay in one place for the full 45 minutes, perhaps longer, with a little practice).  During the learning phase, don’t expect to be able to get alot done, but after a few days to a week for most children, you will be able to get some good learning time in. Try this several times a day in short amounts, or a couple of times per day for a longer stretch of time!
  • Give your child his or her own ‘work’ to complete during your learning time. Find fun coloring or tracing pages, easy sorting activities, or books for your child to look at while you work with a sibling.  Have him sit right next to you while doing this to ensure that he stays engaged and you remain aware of what he is doing.
  • Take your lessons outside.  Set up for reading or doing math problems at a table near an area where your smaller children can safely play.  This is a great time during warmer months to introduce water or sand play, pull out the Play Dough and paints, or experiment with other messy play like shaving cream painting, tracing letters in cornmeal, or pushing trucks through a bin of corn kernels.
  • Have older children play with the younger children while you work with their sibling. If you have older children, you may find a way to schedule times for each of them to play with your younger children while you teach another sibling his English lesson or practice reading. Then switch and work with the other child.  Even younger children can be put ‘in charge’ of a sibling who is younger than them, if they are in a nearby room and have access to mama as needed.
  • Spend time with your youngest children first.  You may find it easier and more productive to take your smallest children outside, or to spend some time doing a special activity, first thing in the morning.  Your older children can use this time to complete chores and any independent work they may have (handwriting, silent reading, essays, research, typing, etc.).  This often helps the younger children be in a better frame of mind to play on their own for a bit while you spend some time with their older siblings. Their ‘tank’ has been filled and they are ready to get started with their day!

Still need some fun and practical ideas? Here are a few blog posts on the topic that you may find helpful.

How Do I Keep My Preschooler Busy? by Kendra over at Prechoolers and Peace.

Keeping Toddlers Busy During Homeschool & Baby and Toddler Busy Ideas by Karen over at Teach Beside Me.

Planning Busy Activities for Toddlers During Homeschool from Tabitha of Meet Penny.

Sensory Bottle Fun by Lara at Lara’s Place and a Cup of Grace.

Great Preschool Activities from Monique at Living Life and Learning.

How to Homeschool: Self-Directed Learning

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When we began homeschooling in 2006, my children were excited about the time they then had to pursue their interests.  Honestly, so was I!  We made weekly trips to the library, we went on field trips with our homeschool group, we had play dates and park days, and we attended extra-curricular classes such as dance and wrestling.  One of the things that my oldest two loved was to check out How to Draw books from the library.  If you’ve ever found this section at the library with your child, you know that many books exist which cover how to draw cars, dinosaurs, puppies, horses, insects, people, comic book characters, and so much more!  My children were enthralled with this new interest and pursued drawing with everything they had and as often as they could.  This type of pursuit of learning is what I would call self-directed learning.  Others may call it delight-directed, child-led, or even unschooling.  In all of these cases, in my opinion, this is learning that the child pursues due to his or her interest rather than as a result of pressure or initiation by parents or teachers.

Over the years my children have continued to take an interest in art.  They have studied math, science, music, sports, literature, and more.  All have held their interest for some period of time, but none like the subject of art.  Last fall we became involved with a local co-op and my two oldest finally took their first formal art classes.  At the end of the school year, both of them were invited to join the Advanced Art Class beginning the next semester (currently ongoing) due to their skill and obvious love for drawing.  They were ecstatic, and I was very pleased for them, as well!

You may be wondering why I’ve shared all of this with you. I simply want you to see what homeschooling can be!

Yes, there are academics involved.

Yes, some days are difficult, academically as well as spiritually, physically, and emotionally.

The truth and joy, though, is that children truly can enjoy learning.  They can and will work hard to gain a skill they want to learn.

I have continued to encourage my children, if they really wanted to learn how to draw well, to keep trying.  I employ this same thought process in other areas, too.  Sometimes this helps motivate them to work towards a goal.  At other times, they decide they really aren’t that interested and do not work as hard or pursue a topic very long.  I believe that, overall, this has helped them to enjoy their homeschooling journey.  We do have some ‘musts’ in our homeschool, but we are much more relaxed than we were at the beginning.  The reason for that is because I have seen the learning take place, much of it aside from our ‘school’ assignments.  Life is a wonderful teacher, and I am now watching my children reap the rewards.

My eldest daughter is now using the skills and knowledge she has gained through her pursuit of art, and is teaching younger children.  She just held her first art class in our home today.  I enjoyed watching her work with the girls, teaching them to enjoy the pursuit of art and to take pride in their work.  Teaching this class is also allowing her to earn some money for her own expenses, including saving for a summer missions trip.  She continues to learn through life, and benefit herself and others, even while teaching and pursuing one of her loves.

I encourage you to observe your children.  What are the topics they are drawn to?  What do they spend a lot of time talking about, playing with, and researching?  Perhaps you could allow them extra time to learn more after their academic work is done, or possibly in place of it.  Allow them to grow into self-directed learners. I believe you, and they, will enjoy it as much as we have!

Did you miss our previous How to Homeschool posts? I’ve linked them below for you!

HOW do I homeschool?

How to Homeschool: Homeschooling Methods, Curriculum, and Resources

How to Homeschool: Homeschool Field Trips

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The Homeschool Village

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