January 15, 2025

Running or Walking with Jesus

My morning quiet time with God is my favorite part of the day.  I have a special chair and perfect side table for my coffee and Bible. I feel so close to the Lord by praying and studying His Word. But I have to be honest, there are times when I get up from “my chair” that I don’t talk or listen to Him for the rest of the day.  A few years ago, I heard a pastor share how he talked to Jesus while riding in the car. If he were driving alone, he pictured Jesus sitting next to him and he would pray.  So I thought…that is it!  I will invite Jesus to ride in the car with me each day.  I never once thought about running or walking with Jesus.

JESUS WEARS NIKE’S

That week, after my morning coffee and quiet time, I put on my tennis shoes to head out for a run.  While running, I said a quick prayer,  “Lord, help me remember while driving that You are riding right next to me and to pray.” It was at that moment, I felt like He took me by my shoulders and shook me right in the middle of MY RUN.  I know He said, “Do you not see me running right here next to you?”  Friends, he was not in sandals, I believe He was in Nike’s.

Now, there is nothing that can replace the quiet and still moments of kneeling at the feet of Jesus to pray. But, the Lord has shown me so many things while running circles around my block giving Him praise, sharing my concerns, and listening to His voice.

The Struggle

I completely understand the struggle to find time for prayer and exercise, which is why I am so passionate about designing exercise programs for busy women. However, I believe before starting a new fitness program, we have to discover how to have balance in our life. I believe real peace and balance can be found by spending time with the Lord Jesus.

THIS WEEK

We have been talking about how to start an exercise program and use our time wisely.  If you are struggling to find time to exercise and pray, try doing them together. You can improve your health physically, mentally, and spiritually by running or walking with Jesus.

To Your Health,

Crystal

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If you have a question for Crystal, related to health and exercise, please email them to:

Crystal@girlfriendscoffeehour.com

Guidelines for Beginning An Exercise Program

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Dear Crystal,

I am a 55 year old woman who is overweight by almost 100 pounds.  I currently get very little exercise. I work behind a computer for several hours a day, and I want to get back into shape. I also have lower back issues, and weak ankles. What is a good exercise routine for me to get started with?

Signed,
Anonymous

 

Dear Anonymous,

Congratulations on starting an exercise program. Getting started can sometimes be overwhelming but, with the right motivation, you can do it. There are certain guidelines for beginning an exercise program.  Here are a couple before you get started.

1. Receive clearance from your doctor with any specific guidelines.  American College of Sports Medicine, the largest sports medicine and exercise science organization in the world, recommends that all females over the age of 50 receive a physicians release before starting an exercise program.

2. Invest in a few pieces of apparel.

  • A good pair of walking or running shoes.  Walking in street shoes or thin sneakers could result in injury.  Find a knowledgeable athletic shoe store and get a pair of name brand walking or running shoes that is best for you. Also, because our feet swell during exercise, buy a size bigger than your normal shoe size.
  • Cool clothing.  While many feel it is beneficial to wear extra clothing to sweat more, all those layers do not allow your body to cool and can lead to overheating and exhaustion.

WEIGHT LOSS

For weight loss, calorie burn is a priority. My recommendation for a beginner exerciser is to start  a walking program. Walk at a brisk pace to increase heart rate, which is the key to burning more calories.  While activities like Pilates and Yoga are awesome and provide many benefits, your primary focus should be cardiovascular exercise 3-5x a week.

For your walking program, begin with a simple plan of 30 minutes a day in duration, even if it is 10 minute intervals at different times.  Gradually build your times up to 30-60 continuous minutes.  If time does not permit that duration, work on increasing the speed of your walk during the time you do have for exercise, which burns more calories too.  🙂  Be sure to end your workout by cooling down and stretching your hamstrings, quadriceps and calf muscles.

LOWER BACK ISSUES 

Lower back issues can be the result of injury or a sedentary lifestyle.  If injury is the culprit of your back problems, be sure to check with your doctor for the type of rehabilitation or prevention exercises he recommends.

Low back pain can occur many times, due to extra weight, sitting for long periods of time without stretching muscles or an accumulation of stress, which for many is carried in the back and shoulders.  Taking about 10 minutes each day to stretch your low back and hamstrings when your muscles are warm (either after exercise or a hot shower) will eliminate a lot of stress and tension in your back.  Yoga or light Pilates is also very beneficial is eliminating and preventing lower back pain.

WEAK ANKLES

Weak ankles could also be a result of extra weight and lack of exercise. By strengthening through exercise and a safe weight loss program, your ankles should be feeling stronger.  Again, if problems persist, consult your doctor.

In summary, as a beginner who wants to lose weight, I would say you are ready to begin a brisk walking program for 30-45 minutes 3-5 days a week followed by 10 minutes of stretching to eliminate any tightness or tension and the risk of pulling a muscle.

You can do it!  Take a deep breath, put on some great music with good tennis shoes and get to walking.

To Your Health,

Crystal

Wellness Coach/Fitness Designer

 

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If you have questions for Crystal, relating to health or exercise, please email them to:

Crystal@girlfriendscoffeehour.com

Have Time for Fitness…Physically and Spiritually

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I remember my thoughts, very clearly, as I sat drinking coffee at 5:30 one morning. It was the week before I went back to work from maternity leave for my second child Zach.  We were now a family of four and I remembered all of the words of friends and family who said, “Two kids changes it up.”  Life is different when you go from one child to two.  How would I have time for fitness, physically and spiritually?

As I sat there, I began to realize all of the things on my plate, not my breakfast plate, but my plate of life.  I did a quick check list:

  • Full time job
  • New business
  • Volunteer work at church
  • New schedule with Hannah (my daughter) starting Kindergarten
  • New baby

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Adding to all of that was my continued desire to have daily quality time with God, my husband, children, and exercise. They were all important to me, but were overwhelming and seemed impossible. It was then that I realized there were things I would have to take off my plate and let go of, if I truly wanted to focus on things that were important to me. As I thought about where my time went each day, I realized it was not all toward my priorities or really necessary. I knew I would have to make a few changes.

Such as:

  • Saying “yes” to things before thinking it through
  • Having my house perfectly cleaned and organized at the end of each day
  • Working hard to make sure everything goes according to MY plan (that can really take up a lot of time)
  • Giving up a favorite TV show

A couple of weeks ago, I talked about making exercise a priority.  Do you feel like you had good intentions of making it a priority, but still struggle to find the time to actually do it?  If so, it may be time to ask yourself two questions.

  1.  Is my time prioritized each day around what is important to me?
  2. Are there things I need to give up or add to focus on my priorities?

Improving our fitness and having a daily quiet time will not just happen. We have to be intentional with our time and sometimes that means giving up what may not be that important in the big scheme of things, certain responsibilities, or our own selfish desires.  God has shown me that, if I give my time to Him, He will help me find time for what is important, even now as a busy woman with a family of four.

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Finding time for your physical and spiritual fitness has to be intentional and usually comes about by making a few changes. Give your time and agenda to God and ask Him for guidance.  He will show you that you do have time for fitness, physically and spiritually.

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If you have a question for Crystal in regards to this blog, please email her at: Crystal@girlfriendscoffeehour.com

An Exercise Plan that Gets Results

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Last week, I talked about finding the right motivation when starting an exercise program.  But let’s be honest, we still want an exercise plan that gets results, either physically or mentally.  It can be easy to quit if you feel defeated and it is important you follow a program that is right for you.  Everyone has different goals, schedules, and fitness levels.   Once you have established your motivation and made exercise a priority, it is  time to develop an exercise plan that gets results.

Establish the following for your program:

Type: Choose the right type of exercise (walking, jogging, yoga, strength training, Zumba, step class, etc.) to meet YOUR goals whether it is to gain energy or strength, maintain a healthy weight or increase flexibility.  Find something that you actually enjoy and determine if it is appropriate for your fitness level and physical limitations.

Intensity:  Determine how hard you will work and include the appropriate working heart rate. As a certified instructor with American Council of Exercise, I guide my clients with the following heart rate zones when designing a fitness program.

Duration: Set the appropriate length of time for your workout. Do you need 20, 30, or 60 minutes to achieve your desired results?

Frequency: Decide how many days a week are needed and what you can commit to give.

Proverbs 21:5 says, “The plans of the diligent lead surely to the advantage, but everyone who is hasty comes surely to poverty. At the beginning of the week, take a few minutes with your weekly calendar and pencil in your exercise for the week.  Be sure to include the type, intensity, duration, and frequency.  With a plan and a goal,  you are less likely to quit a few minutes into it.

Proverbs 16:3 says, “Commit to the Lord whatever you do; and your plans will succeed.”  Give that plan to God as a way to honor Him and commit to stick with it.  With commitment and the right program for you, you will have an exercise plan that gets results.

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If you have questions for Crystal, please email her at: Crystal@girlfriendscoffeehour.com

Crucial Questions Before Starting an Exercise Program by Crystal Breaux, Wellness Coach/Fitness Designer

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Have you ever wondered what you should do when starting an exercise program, such as:  What works, what doesn’t work?  Should I do cardio or lift weights?  How long, how fast, and what do I wear?  These are all important questions and need the right answers to achieve your personal health and fitness.

However, can YOU answer two crucial questions before starting an exercise program?

  1. Have you made exercise a PRIORITY in your life?
  2. What is your MOTIVATION?

Your answers will not only help you get started, but set the road map for having a consistent exercise program, which can be the most difficult part.

Follow me for a moment with this newspaper headline:

After receiving the news that she would have to drive 45 minutes to pick up her 1 million dollar lottery check, a busy woman states  that she  “does not have time” and will have to decline her winnings.”

Does that sound crazy or what? Like me, I am sure you are thinking, “I would find the time!” because I know that…

  • My life would change
  • I would never HAVE to work again
  • My kids college would be paid
  • I would never have to worry about money again

Without a doubt, picking up that money would become a PRIORITY that day because of the benefits I would receive in finding 45 minutes in my day.

How often do you say “I don’t have time to exercise?”  Let’s be honest — is it that you don’t have the time or you have not made exercise a priority?

WHAT IS A PRIORITY?

A priority has been defined as something afforded or deserving attention. 

The truth is we will make time for the things that are a PRIORITY to us, like picking up a million dollars. We will rearrange schedules, cancel meetings, or say no to certain things so that it can be done.

WHAT IS YOUR MOTIVATION?

Would exercise become a priority if you were motivated for the right reasons?  Before I design a specific program for my client, we establish a concrete motivator.

It is important to know that what motivated you in the past may not motivate you now.  For example, the only reason I exercised 20 years ago was to “hopefully” look a certain way in my jeans, although it did not exactly work.  Today at age 41, while the jeans do matter (let’s be honest) it is not my only motivation for exercise.  If I use “the jeans” as my only motivation, exercise would not be a priority.

What does motivate me is focusing on Scripture and remembering that when I exercise I am

  • Bringing honor to God with my body (I Corinthians 6:19-20)
  • Feeling close to God as He strengthens me during my exercise (Isaiah 45:5) and brings me:
  • Less stress (Philippians 4:6)
  • More peace (Psalm 34:14)
  • Feeling good and in good health (Proverbs 3:8)
  • Strong enough to do what I am called to do (Proverbs 31:17)
  • More energetic at work (Proverbs 31:17)
  • Positive with a better attitude (Proverbs 17:22 )
  • Feeling confident about myself (Psalm 197:14)

What will motivate you today?  Before jumping into the next exercise craze, ask yourself the real questions before starting an exercise program.

  • What is my motivation?
  • Have I made it a priority?

If just like taking the time to pick up your money would change your life,

how would your life change if you were motivated to make exercise a priority?

 

To Your Health & Wellness, 

Crystal Bush Breaux

Wellness Coach/Fitness Designer

Easy Healthy Lunch to Go by Crystal Breaux, Wellness Coach/Fitness Designer

 

One of the biggest challenges for busy women can be finding the perfect healthy lunch. Packing the same old sandwich or salad every day can become boring and frustrating. When at a loss, it is easy to slip into old habits such as grabbing whatever is available or eating at the mercy of your nearest fast food restaurant. For busy women, we want variety and an easy healthy lunch to go. One of my new favorites is a Black Bean Power Salad.

RECIPE:

• 1 cup whole-kernel corn

• 2 cans (16oz each) of black beans, rinsed and drained

• ¼ cup chopped parsley

• 2 TBS minced red onion

• ¼ cup balsamic vinegar

• 2 TBS olive oil

• 1 tsp lemon juice

• 1 tsp minced garlic

• 1 tsp honey or brown sugar

• Salt and pepper

DIRECTIONS:

In a large bowl, combine the corn, beans, parsley, onions, vinegar, oil, lemon juice, garlic, and honey or brown sugar. Let it marinade for the 30 minutes. Add salt and pepper to taste.

NUTRITIONAL VALUE:

Calories 417.6

Fat 6.9

Sodium 220.3

Protein 21.7

Fiber 21.3

It is so delicious and look at the fiber and protein…..a guarantee to keep you full and satisfied. I make it right after church on Sunday to prepare for my upcoming week. It just takes a few minutes each morning or the night before to pack my easy healthy lunch to go. To add a little more protein, I add any leftover grilled chicken (nutritional value not included with chicken). For variety, I reduce my serving size and add cheese and crackers. All together, here is my lunch to go.

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Don’t forget your calories with crackers which can add up quickly. My favorite cracker that gives me the most bang for the buck is Triscuits Thin Crisp. At only 150 calories for 15 crackers, half of a serving is perfect.

TriscuitThinCrispsOriginal8_5oz240g500Combine with string cheese at 80 calories and you Black Bean Power Salad and you have an easy healthy lunch to go.

 

Eating Healthy, 

Crystal Breaux

Wellness Coach/Fitness Designer

 

 

A Snack Schedule to Help Keep You Healthy by Crystal Breaux, Wellness Coach/Fitness Designer

Have you ever rushed out the door in the morning with nothing more than a mug of coffee in hand? Then when hunger hits, you discover you are at the mercy of someone or something else for something to eat.  You may even decide to skip a snack which only slows down your metabolism and leaves you famished at your next meal with no control over what you eat.

One of the biggest pitfalls I see with women is not planning healthy snacks. Snacks can be the key in weight management by helping you:

  • Meet your daily nutrient requirements
  • Regulate your metabolism
  • Keep you from overeating at your next meal

I believe conquering this ONE behavior—creating a snack schedule—can lead to a lifetime of weight management and feeling at peace with food.  If the right snacks are not chosen, it can lead to feeling unsatisfied by eating empty, unnecessary calories.

Building My Snack Schedule

I like to build my snacks around nutrient dense foods (foods that have a lot of nutrients) but relatively few calories. At times, I may combine them with a smaller serving of something that is less nutritious.   For example, I love a handful of nuts, string cheese and end with a Hershey’s Kiss.

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Sound crazy? The nuts and cheese are nutrient dense, and the Kiss fills my desire for chocolate. I am not tempted to over indulge because I am satisfied and have built my sweet “treat” into my daily requirement.

Another favorite is 1 tablespoon of peanut butter with a banana or apple.

 

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Daily Motivation

My prayer each day is that I view what I eat and how I exercise the same way I do other areas in my life.  It is a way to honor God.

The Bible says in I Corinthians 10:31: So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.   

Of course, I am not perfect. There are plenty of times I eat things that were not the best choice; but I take it as an opportunity to give myself a little grace and learn how to do it differently the next time. Have you ever thought about how you eat as a way to bring honor to God? It may give you a new motivation for eating healthy that may include planning a snack schedule.

Meet Wellness Coach and Fitness Designer – Crystal Bush Breaux

I Can Handle It

 

“I can handle it and figure it all out on my own. If I mess up, I do not need anyone to help me.  I am strong enough and capable to turn it around and make it right.  I know the exact time when things need to be done according to the clock, day, week, month and even year.” That WAS the story of my life. I had a need to be morally perfect and in control; which, of course, caused me internal frustration, hopelessness, and missed opportunities for a deeper relationship with God and others.

Perfection

All of my life, I have had a desire to do the right thing by pleasing God and other people.  However, when I could not keep it together and failed, I was too embarrassed to ask for help.  I knew if I tried really hard I could do it without the help of anyone, including God.  This struggle left me feeling like a failure more than once.  It was only when I realized I was powerless by myself and could admit my imperfections, I became secure and confident in whom I was as a woman in Christ.

Control

After many years of infertility, multiple miscarriages, and trying to “fix” things in my marriage on my own, I had to realize there are things in my life I can not control.  I had to be willing to submit those things to God and give up my fears, my timelines, and plans of how I think it should be done. For someone who prided herself on being organized, on time, and prepared for any situation, the lack of control in certain areas of my life left me feeling hopeless.

What a happy day when I really understood my life’s scripture.Phil1_6

What a relief. I am not expected to have it all together. God knows we are going to fail, so why shouldn’t we expect it of our self.

As a fitness and wellness coach, my purpose in life is to work with women who want to overcome the helpless feeling of not knowing how to maintain their weight and consistency in their fitness.  I understand the feeling of having control and discipline in so many areas of life, yet struggling internally in one area that is so important to a woman. It can leave you feeling powerless.

My heart is to empower women to feel confident in their choices with food and exercise, and guide them toward a life of balance physically, mentally and spiritually, no matter how busy life gets.

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Crystal will be blogging for At Home with GCH on the 1st and 3rd Wednesday of each month.

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