April 26, 2024

Lady In Waiting: Ministry of Listening, Helps, and Non-Newsy Works

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by Diane Meyers

Where is Your Glue Gun?
1 Corinthians 10:31: So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.  This verse is one of my LIFE VERSES!  When I spend time in the word, every so often I read a verse that the highlighter does not even do justice to!  These verses struck a chord in my heart, and because of that they change me.  These verses are my strength in weakness, my light in darkness, my solid ROCK when shaken; or LIFE VERSES as me and my sister like to call them!  1 Corinthians 10:31 is one that really struck me when I read it.  I’m not sure if it was because as I read it over and over again, I thought of everything that I had once done in my past that was the complete opposite of giving glory to God; or, if it was because I instantly thought of everything that I would do from that moment forward to GIVE GOD GLORY.  Probably both, this verse was my motivation and God used it to lead me to live a life full of helping others.

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Every single day I (WE) encounter broken after broken hearts.  These hearts come in all shapes, sizes, and pieces.  It is the heart of the lady you sit next to at work who cannot go home because she is her husband’s punching bag.  It is the heart of the man that you pass by at the bus stop wondering how he is going to provide for his family because at his last interview he was too experienced or just not what they are looking for.  It is the heart of the little boys and girls you hear about on the news who are ripped out of their homes and now living with temporary families.  It is the heart of the lives of every single person that you encounter who does not know their Savior in Heaven personally, that ought to make you want to grab a super-size glue gun and help fix these broken pieces.  I know I have my glue gun, all because when I look into the faces of these broken lives all I see is my old, glory-less self; the lost little girl in a big scary world.  I see the hurt behind their smile, the pain in their eyes, and I know them all too well.

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Can I ask you some things that you either will not get or crave to find out the answer to?  Where is your glue gun?  Have you been renewed from all of your hurts?  Do you know what it is like to be made new, with no broken pieces all because of the glue guns of others that God is the power source to?  If yes, don’t you want to be that glue gun to others, leading them to the only power that will heal them, help them, and restore them; Jesus Christ.  If no, be honest to God; let Him know where you need those broken pieces to be glued together again.  His glue lasts forever.

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Matthew 25:40 And the King will answer them, “Truly, I say to you, as you did it to one of the least of these my brothers, you did it to me.”  There it is, another LIFE VERSE.  That one hit me even harder, everything I have ever done to anyone I did to God.  That realization brought about a huge change in how I treat others.  Now, I still do see myself in the brokenhearted of the world, but even more so I see Jesus.  When people look at me, I want them to see Jesus, NOT ME.  This verse also helps me remember that God is with the brokenhearted, and I want to be where God is.  I have come to love my single days instead of dreading them because I get to spend them looking for Jesus, among the brokenhearted.

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There are opportunities all around me and YOU to share God’s light.  Are you sulking in your singleness that it is blinding you from taking advantage of all of the opportunities God is giving you to minister to others, and live each day with HIM (where you just so happen to be the happiest, not in a marriage)?  Being single is the perfect time to ask God to bring the brokenhearted along your path.  This is the time to spend listening to others needs instead of focusing on the one need you think you need that God has not given you yet-a husband.  This is the time to figure out your LIFE VERSES, and share them with the world.  This is the time to find that glue gun and go on a journey with God to find the broken pieces.  Don’t let what the world says about being alone and single ruin your happy.  And better yet, LET THE WORLD KNOW you are not alone, you are with God; and they can be too!

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LET’S PRAY:

Lord, I thank you so much for always shining through when I write.  I thank you for this time we have to hear from YOU.  I pray that each and every one of us that is along this journey together desire to seek your face among the brokenhearted.  I pray that you bring opportunities into our lives to help others come to know you as their personal Savior.  Lord, we love you so much, and I just pray that we learn to be happy, productive, single women, helping to FURTHER YOUR KINGDOM, give us your strength Lord.  I pray these things in your Son’s precious name, AMEN!

YOUR ASSIGNMENT:  

What are some things you have done to help others all around you?  Are there people in your life that you know God has placed in it so that you can minister HIS love to them?  What areas of helping, listening, and staying humble do you enjoy most or struggle the most with?  Please comment answers below, I CANNOT WAIT TO HEAR WHAT YOU HAVE TO SAY!

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Blessings,

Diane

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About Diane Meyers

Diane Meyers – Blog Contributor
Diane lives in Pittsburgh, PA. She is surrounded by a ton of family and loved ones God has given her to share life with. To the world, Diane may be single, but to her she has the best date of all… Jesus! Diane is very involved with the children’s ministry at her church, and is also a spiritual coach for a ministry aimed toward the youth.

Comments

  1. Tonya Ellison says

    Great post! It is so easy to get wrapped up in the events of life and forget that ALL we do is suppossed to be done to the Glory of God. 🙂 I find that when it comes to listening I want to fix the situation, I want to make it all better. But, sometimes God places people in our life because we are there to just listen, that person may only need a non-judgemental person listening to their story. So, I have stop myself from trying to fix the problem and just really listen.

    Thanks for the post.

    • Yes, we just talked about this at my Bible study last night! How many times is God doing extroidinary things that he begs us to be apart of and we miss out! I used to be I can fix everything kind of person too. I have learned the hard way that God does all of the fixing, we just need to be available to let HIM in to use us along the way!!! Thanks for sharing Tonya!

  2. Beautiful post, once again, Diane! <3

  3. Very wise words Diane. Being single in God is a lot different than being single in the world. Thank you for the focus your life verses bring to our days. To God be the glory!

  4. This post struck home with me, not because I am single, but because God is fixing my broken pieces right now, thru GCH. I read every post from each study, everyday….I seem to be able to take something from each blog and relate it to my life in some way. It never fails to amaze me how God can bring all things together for His ultimate purpose and glory. Thank you for letting God lead you in your words to touch women from all situations. Have a blessed weekend! <3

    • Jennifer, when you decide to let God in to fix the broken pieces, it is one of the hardest but best journeys you can go on with HIM! When I write these blogs I pray that people with find one thing that will touch them, or one thing that God will speak to them through the writing. I am so glad that YOU have found God through the blog posts! I am so blessed to SEE how God is working through GCH for you:)

  5. Great post! Like Tonya, I tend to want to fix things that are not mine to fix. I'm learning I have 2 ears and 1 mouth and its not by coincidence. And when I open my 1 mouth, life and encouragement need to be streaming from it. 🙂

    • Yes, I am working on that too!! I LOVE finding people that are learning the same things I am, now when I pray specifically for God's help in that area, I will be praying for you TWO as well:)

  6. jackiechingawale says

    Awesome post Diane

  7. Laurie Ellis says

    Great post Diane. Yes, God picks up and glues the pieces together. Isn't it awesome that if you shine a light into a broken (then glued together) vessel, it shines out many ways. If you shine a light into a vessel unbroken, it only goes out one way. We all have had broken pieces and so thankful we can trust an amazing God with His glue gun. I have worked with several women through recovery of different issues to be able to talk and learn how to trust Him through life. It is not always the easiest, but when we can, what a truly amazing journey He will take us on.

  8. Love being able to read your heart, my sweet sister! Thank you for the encouragement. For me I somehow, sometimes forget how MUCH others need the grace of God in their lives every day! I forget that even though they may not think they need his love and grace, it is my duty to share that with them day in and day out, until they get it! I need to begin praying for the heart of Christ, to love others the way he loves them!