May 2, 2024

Lady In Waiting: Diligence and the Ministry of Teaching, Encouragement, and Prayer

 

I was (and sometimes still am) an excuse maker.

“I’m too busy”

“I don’t know what to say”

“What difference will I make?’

“There are better qualified people”

Diligence in ministry is something that I was not, and honestly it is an area that God is still working on.

I did little things here and there at church. But a big lesson I learned was that it doesn’t stop at church. There were and continue to be so many opportunities in where I can be diligent in these areas; I actually saw more opportunities outside of my church than inside of it.

He calls us to do many things in his name; three of those are to teach, to encourage and to pray. My famous line was “I’m busy” or “I don’t have the time”; and yes, truth be told I am busy, but so is everyone else.

I had to stop making excuses.

Teach. Encourage. Pray.

The book asks a great question that can be applied to all three areas “Are we giving out as much as we take in?” I know that I take in a lot, whether it’s quiet study time with God, encouraging words (my love language is words of affirmation) or people praying for me.

I have to ask myself some questions. Am I teaching others, sharing the truths god has shown me? Am I encouraging others, whether it is my co-workers, or the frustrated mom in the store? Am I forming “duets” and lifting others up in prayer? Am I praying for others on my own?

Just yesterday I was in Wal-mart, a young mother was shopping with her little girl and the little girl was way beyond done with the shopping trip. The mom was frustrated which caused the little girl to express her dislike for Wal-mart even louder. I’ve been there. A smile to the mom and to the little girl, plus a reassuring word to the mother about not being alone in the world of toddler tempers tantrums and a prayer for the two; I feel that God had me go down that isle for a reason. It was an opportunity for be to give back.

I’m not always diligent in these areas. I talk myself out of opportunities (a lot); I make excuses (a lot). But He always gives me more chances (a lot). He gives us opportunities to teach, encourage
and to pray.

God doesn’t require us to be the most outgoing, the most eloquent, the most educated or resourceful women. He requires our time and our willingness and diligence.
God will provide us with the words, knowledge and tools to do the things he asks us to do.   I say that because I am not the most extroverted person out there and I was using my excuses to stay that way.

It’s funny, the more I explain to God why I can’t do these things the more opportunities He creates for them to be done. Yes, He is a God of humor. He does something else as well, He brings back the feelings I had when I had someone teach me, when I had someone lift me up and encourage me, when I knew that I was being prayed for.

I had to give back what I took in.

I have to give back what I take in.

Let’s Pray:
Lord, thank you for the teaching, encouraging and prayer that you have allowed us to receive, thank you for those who took in, and gave back out to us. Please open our eyes for such opportunities; for the chances for us to give out to others in need. Thank you for the time you have blessed us with, please let us see the time as a tool, and please let us to be sensitive to the words you give us and the urging you put on our hearts to do as you ask. Thank you for the opportunities to be diligent in teaching, in prayer and in encouragement.

Your Assignment:

Remember a time in which you were taught, encouraged or prayed for. How did it feel? Share some examples of situations in which you gave back what you took in. Reading examples of others may teach and encourage the rest of the group to step out and give back.

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God bless,

Tonya

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About Tonya Ellison

Tonya Ellison — Blog Contributor
Tonya comes to us from Rio Rancho, New Mexico where she lives with her four favorite people, three kids ages 4, 6, and 9, and her husband of seven years, Jamel. Her hobbies include writing and reading, crocheting, and spending time with her family. She earned her BS in Human Services/Management and works as a Bereavement Counselor.

Comments

  1. I'm doing some of that with my own family right now. I am also a pretty good excuse maker. Definitely need to let Him work on that in me. 😉
    Thanks, Tonya!!

    • Tonya Ellison says

      It seems so much easier to make excuses than to think of reasons why we could and should step out and give back. I think a great place to start is within your family. 🙂

  2. It feels so good to give to / serve others!! GIVING/SERVING allows us to bless others. Blessing others, blesses us!! LOVE this post today Tonya!!! <3

  3. Awesome blog Tonya!! You give more than you realize you do. Love you!

  4. Laurie Ellis says

    Amazing blog. So many times we do want to make excuses. The enemy would rather us sit back and not use what God has brought us out of. I love it when Joyce Meyer says let God change your mess into a message. Many think we do not need to look back to move forward, however, God gave us a testimony (we all have one) to share with others. We never know who will hear it and be blessed, I have found many times it is not the person I thought it would be. I have had women come into my life in the past 3 years that have come alongside and been used by God to help me overcome. I do and want to continue to use the mess I was in to help anyone who will listen 😉

    • Hi Laurie!
      I definitely agree that we can use what we've learned in the past to teach and encourage others. Your desire to help others is awesome! I know God will use you. 🙂

  5. Great post Tonya! I have been blessed with amazing friends who walk along side me and who are my encouragers and prayer warriors. I would be lost without them. I hope I give back half of what I get!

  6. Great post Tonya! After reading this, I declare NO MORE EXCUSES.