“Blessed are those whose way is blameless”
Psalm 119:1
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Wow! What an amazing week we’ve had this week here at Girlfriends Coffee Hour!
We opened up our Fellowship Group to new members this week. When we reached our 100th member, we offered a prize for that new member! I’m happy to say that Catherine Drake, from Canada, is our blessed winner, and our 100th member of the GCH Fellowship Group!! Congratulations, Catherine!
Our Fellowship Group is a fun group of women who are there just to fellowship with each other. We also have our Study Group where we have our Daily Activity that is given each day, and where we discuss our study at hand! If you would like to be a member of either, or both groups, please send an email to: GirlfriendsCoffeeHour@gmail.com, and we’ll get the details out to you on how to join these amazingly fun groups!
This week in the Resolution for Women, we discussed Integrity. It’s been a tough week for some of us, myself included!
We’ve had to look at the things in our life that are drawing us further and further away from integrity and our walk with the Lord. We’ve had to look at how our actions behind closed doors can heavily impact our integrity walk! Some of this wasn’t pleasant, but it was needed in order for us to be the very BEST we can be, for our Lord and Savior! He is worthy of our BEST!
I am so glad Priscilla Shirer offered this chapter in her book The Resolution for Women. I hope you enjoyed the blogs this week, too! We’ve learned a lot from the book, and from the blog posts! We’ve had some amazing discussions about integrity this week in our Facebook Groups!
We’ve had to ask ourselves:
- Will what I am doing or saying bring glory to God?
- Is my behavior worthy of God’s blessing?
- Is there an area of my life that I would be embarrassed or ashamed for others to find out about?
- What areas do I need to be held accountable?
Some pretty tough ones to ask ourselves, but important questions to keep us on the right path to victory!! Amen? AMEN!
Let’s close this week with reviewing our Resolution and signing our names to yet another amazing promise to ourselves, and to God!
My Integrity
I will not tolerate evil influences even in the most justifiable form,
in myself or my home, but will embrace and encourage a life of purity.
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Your Signature
I have signed my book! I hope you will sign too!
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Next week, we will cover the topic of My Heart – A resolution to care! Another awesome week!!!
…don’t forget to read what the men are up to with the Resolution for Men over on Craig’s blog…
www.adversusmundi.wordpress.com
Love you & I’ll see you on Sunday with next weeks reading lessons.
Living Intentionally to Be My Very Best for Him,
Resolution for Women — Weekly Overview – Integrity
Resolution for Women: From Strength to Strength
As I studied this lesson the first thing that truly penetrated deep with me was the story Priscilla shared about her stepping onto the log, you know the one that looked so sturdy and strong on the outside when in fact it was totally rotten on the inside. It got me to thinking about myself and how I must look to God on the inside and outside. So I found these two pictures to illustrate it for you.
Look at how nice this apple looks (all juicy looking and ready for you to take a bite, and you pick it up, wash it, and get ready to take that bite.
And when you do….ewwww…is then what you are saying because the inside looks like this….
It looked good enough to whet your appetite when in fact decay and deterioration had taken over its inside, and sooner or later this same thing is what happens to each of us, the pressures of our life will reveal the truth of what is on the inside.
We can put up fronts and “look” strong on the outside but our insides are ready to snap, to fall to pieces.
Something caused this apple not to be able to stand up to keeping it strong and juicy and ready to eat just like something inside us does the same and that something we learned about in this week’s lessons is our integrity.
The story of Daniel in the lions den is truly one of the most pure Christian inspirational stories of all times. His pure love for God put his integrity to the ultimate test!
We find the story in Daniel Chapter 6. We have all heard the story but I would like to stress some points within the story that stand out to me and will help us to understand what this lesson is trying to teach us.
The story took place during the rule of king Darius. King Darius liked Daniel a lot, and had placed him in a very high position within his kingdom. Of course because of Daniel’s status it caused a great deal of jealousy among the individuals placed below him. So much so that they plotted against him. Now these weren’t just everyday people they were high ranking officials.
When they got together they decided that they needed to find out something about his life that they could use against him to destroy him.
Does that sound familiar at all to the way people still act today. People are always trying to get the scoop on us and what they can find out in order to tell others….Instead of trying to work hard and handle their own lives, they find it is a lot faster to the top of the food chain to destroy those around them.
Kids are a good example of this! What is the first thing a small child will do to gain favor of their parents over their siblings? They run to mama and daddy and tattle on them for what the other one was doing! ***I did that to my younger sister several times**** They are just trying to get to the top of the parents totem pole by trampling on the backs of anyone who stands in their way.
That is what the people were doing to Daniel. They examined his life with a fine tooth comb and could not find anything wrong.
Wow! Can you imagine! How wonderful that could be to know someone was looking into our life and not being able to find just “one” something that could destroy us.
The only thing they could figure out was that Daniel would pray three times a day like clock work in his home. Throughout his life he didn’t care who was in charge, what the rules were, he was going to worship the one and only true God!
It started from the first time they brought him captive to Babylon. He would not eat the food they presented and with the help of God was given the proper diet.
At the time, Daniel’s praying was no problem. But the people intended to make it a problem because they knew he wouldn’t give up his dedicated worship to God. That is a true testament in itself of his Integrity! He was known for doing the right thing without compromise. How about us? Will we do the same?
So the people went to King Darius and asked him to make a decree for thirty days that no one would bow down and make a request from anyone except the King himself. The NLT version states it like this in verse 7: We are all in agreement—we administrators, officials, high officers, advisers, and governors—that the king should make a law that will be strictly enforced. Give orders that for the next thirty days any person who prays to anyone, divine or human—except to you, Your Majesty—will be thrown into the den of lions.
Pretty straight forward huh? They knew Daniel’s integrity would not allow him to stop doing what he would always do. That was to worship his God.
King Darius did agree to this unknowingly that they had plotted against his friend Daniel. He signed it in such a way that it couldn’t be undone. You see the people in that day believed that a king was like a God and could not make a mistake. So if a king signed a decree, it was irreversible!
So what do you suppose Daniel did?
- Of course he went right on doing what he always did.
- He didn’t try to hide it!
- He didn’t try to delay it for thirty days!
- He didn’t try to fake it by pretending not to!
- He just kept on keeping on!
- That’s Integrity!
He would be facing death if he were to bow down to his God, BUT he just kept on praying to Him. He didn’t change one thing about his normal routine.
What about us, are we committed that strongly to doing the right thing?
When we go into a public restaurant do we still pray before we eat, or are we afraid of the ridicule we might face?
When we have a non Christian over for dinner do we pray before eating or do we only do that with our Christian friends?
When we are behind closed doors do we worship the one and only true God or do we only do that on Sunday at Church?
Do we speak holy/churchy conversations around our church friends and need to wash our mouths out around our work friends?
These are only examples of how we might change what we are doing because we have formed our behaviors around society.
Integrity is doing the right thing no matter what the consequences!
Daniel knew that if he prayed as he always did, he was going to be thrown into the lions den. Was he afraid? I don’t know! But that showed a form of Integrity that can’t be matched anywhere, or anytime.
He decided that he would face death before he caved into the world and it’s rules of going against God!
Now we know how the story ended, but Daniel didn’t have the luxury of knowing!
I know that I would’ve probably caved like a sink hole! Each situation God allows us to experience that tests our ability to make the right choice makes us that much stronger in our relationship with Him and His Son Jesus.
Each experience we face makes doing the right thing a little easier! We can only do this with God’s help. By asking Jesus to be the Authority of our life, it will change us and make integrity a little more real everyday in our life.
Until maybe, just maybe, we will face the lions den as Daniel did and say, God I will follow you over them every time!!! I will NOT compromise integrity for a moment of fun. Remember as Christians we can still have fun but we don’t have to compromise what we know is right! Let’s take this stand, and be free so we can be an example and an influence to those who are watching our lives so that we can draw them to a closer relationship with Christ.
Let’s pray:
God I pray for each woman who studied this lesson of integrity this week. You showed us many things about our lives that we need to give over to You in order for us to be strong over the evil influences that try to take hold in our lives and I pray You begin and continue to show each of us what those things are so we can place them at Your feet and rid them from our lives and so that we will be ready to sign this resolution to be a “woman of integrity” ! In Jesus’ name I pray, AMEN!
Your assignment:
I would love to hear from each of you how God removed your hidden infested decay that was on your inside before you did this weeks’ study and how He brought it to the surface and revealed the truths to you and because of His teachings this week you are now “strong” and resolved to be a “woman of integrity”.
Now head on back to our Online Bible Study Facebook Group for the Daily Activity (Megan always has something great/fun for us!) If you don’t belong to our OBS FB Group, and would like to, simply send us an email at: GirlfriendsCoffeeHour@gmail.com and we’ll be happy to send you the details you will need to get started!
…don’t forget to read what the men are up to over on Craig’s blog…
Resolution for Women: The 3% Difference
“Blessed are those whose way is blameless”
Psalm 119:1
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As I read this chapter, I just couldn’t stop thinking of Girlfriends Coffee Hour and how much of what Priscilla was saying about us needing friends to hold us and keep us accountable to living a life of integrity, just fits with what GCH is all about!!
But, before I go there, I want to discuss the 3% difference. All I can say is OUCH! This is a tough chapter! I’ve had to look at myself with a magnifying glass this week, so I could find everything that was keeping me from living a life of Integrity!! I’ve had to look deep into what my life really is like behind closed doors, and not just what I put out there for everyone to see. Again, OUCH!!
The information that Priscilla shared about the rat poison and how just 3% of the whole ingredients of rat poison is what actually kills the rat….while the other 97% is what draws the rat to the poison!
What draws you to the poison? Is it television shows, books, music, gossip, lying, stealing? Is it what you look at on the computer? Is it that glance at work with your co-worker? What is it that is drawing you closer to the rat poison?
Integrity to me means doing the right thing even when others are not looking. It means doing the right thing….period.
When you leave Wal-Mart, do you park your cart next to your car, or do you put it in the cart rack?
Do you gossip about others in your life? In your church? At work? In front of your children?
Do you talk mean about others? In front of your kids, and then expect them not to bully others?
Do you stand aside while someone is digging for extra change to pay their grocery bill? Or do you offer to help them by giving them the extra change they need?
Do you hold the door for others as they enter a building at the same time as you? Or do you walk through as if they didn’t even exist?
What do you watch on television?
What do you look at on the computer?
Every one of these things fit into the 97% category that entices you to get to the 3%! Did you know that? If not, now you do! What are you going to do about it?
There are so many things satan uses to try and trip us up; to taint our integrity. Sometimes we don’t even realize it…until it’s too late.
We are Christians. We are to be the light of the world. We are to bring honor and glory to the name of Jesus. We are to be on our guard, so that our minds are not dulled, as it says in Luke 21:34.
We are to protect our minds, our hearts, our homes, and our walk with the Lord. We are to stand up and ask for accountability if we are struggling with a certain area in our lives. We are not to allow even a hint of immorality, impurity or greed enter into our lives. (Eph 5:3)
Even a hint…. Just 3 % is all it takes to kill a rat. Just 3%. Think about that for a minute. Out of 100% of the rat poison….all it takes is just 3% to kill the rat! The other 97% is what tastes good, looks good, and feels good to the rat. But it’s the 3% that kills him…. Just 3%.
We could stand all day and look at just that small tiny little 3%, but ask yourself about the other 97%. What is it in your life that is drawing you, feeding you, enticing you, and making you “feel” good?
You know it’s there. You’ve known it was there for quite a while now. You’ve tried your best to get rid of it…to tame it….to stop it…to put it aside….but it just keeps coming back to entice you.
That’s where accountability comes in. After you’ve made the choice to step away from these things and start living a life of integrity, confess this to the Lord, and then reach out to someone you trust who can hold you accountable to that choice you have just made.
Girlfriends Coffee Hour is a great place to do just that! A group of Christian women who love the Lord; who strive to live their lives to bring honor and glory to our Lord; who strive to encourage one another; lift each other up in prayer; and support one another along this journey.
GCH is a place where you can come to let your hair down….to get real. To laugh. To cry. To pray. To fellowship with women all across the world, who are in this journey together!
GCH is a place for others to hold you accountable. We won’t coddle you. We won’t baby you. We’ll give it to you just the way you need it. Straight up and in truth!
For some, it’s just what they need. For others, it’s a good kick in the pants. For even others, it’s just what God has called them to.
If you are looking for a place to call home; a place to come for fellowship; a place for accountability; a place to pray for and encourage others and to be prayed for and encouraged, we want to be here for YOU!
Proverbs 27:17 says, “As iron sharpens iron, so a friend sharpens a friend”. That is the scripture the Lord gave us for this ministry. We want to help sharpen you to be the very best that you can be for our Lord and Savior!
We love you! I hope today’s lesson sinks down deep into your heart. I hope it brings you to a place where you will give your ALL to the Lord, so you can become your very best for Him! That’s what we pray for you!
Let’s pray:
Father, as I lift each woman who reads this blog today, I ask that You reveal Yourself to them in ways they’ve never seen before. Help them, Lord, to dig deep and really search their hearts for things that are prohibiting them from walking in integrity. Help us help them, Lord, as we walk alongside them today and every day, to bring You glory and honor! We love You Lord, and we constantly want nothing more but to bring You honor in all that we do, and say! In Jesus’ name, AMEN!
Your assignment:
Describe below in our comment section how we can help hold you accountable to what God is doing in your heart this week. What would that look like, and would you be willing to submit to it?
Now head on back to our Online Bible Study Facebook Group for the Daily Activity, and be sure to let us know today what this chapter has said to you! If you don’t belong to our OBS FB Group, and would like to, simply send us an email at: GirlfriendsCoffeeHour@gmail.com and we’ll be happy to send you the details you will need to get started!
…don’t forget to read what the men are up to over on Craig’s blog…
www.adversusmundi.wordpress.com
Have a BLESSED Day!!!
The Resolution for Women – Integrity
“Blessed are those whose way is blameless”
Psalm 119:1
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This week in The Resolution for Women, we will discuss Integrity, and what that means in our own lives. When I think of the word Integrity, it says to me
- Am I the same person in public that I am in the privacy of my own home?
- Is the life that I lead honoring God?
- Am I compromising my own moral values for what society calls “Okay”?
- Am I accepting evil in a justifiable way?
Most people look at integrity as a way of being perfect; no sin, etc. That, we know, will never happen because man has a sinful nature. The only human that ever walked this earth was Jesus himself. But with the Holy Spirit living inside of us, we are able to live a life of integrity if we allow Him to guide us.
I am going to, once again, post a video here by Priscilla Shirer speaking about this chapter of her book. At the beginning of this video, she briefly discusses the last chapter on Forgiveness, but it then moves in to this weeks lesson on Integrity.
After watching the video, I will post something that she shared that I thought was rather interesting…..here’s Priscilla….
(Girlfriends Coffee Hour does not in any way endorse the Crossroads Membership Pledge mentioned at the end of this video)
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Did you catch what she said about the Rat Poison?
3% of the ingredients in rat poison is actually poison. Just 3%!! The other 97% is stuff that will actually taste good to the rat to attract it to the poison.
What 97% of the things in your own life is pulling you to the 3% of the poison (evil) ???
How many marriages focus on just the 3% of the “poison” in their marriage, only to end in divorce and never even think of the other 97%???
What 3% in your own life is keeping you from God’s fullness?
Ask yourself this question: Is what I am doing behind closed doors bringing honor to God?
Or, Can I ask God to bless what I am doing or saying?
If the answer is no to either one of those last questions, maybe it’s time to talk to God about what is happening in your life. God does not want the activity in your life to bring you to dulled spiritual sensitivity. He wants you to be filled to the fullest that You can have through Christ Jesus!
Besides, God already knows what goes on behind closed doors. He already knows what you are watching on television, or looking at on the computer. He already knows what is happening in your marriage, or at work. He already knows the things you are involved in, or the things you are addicted to.
All He is doing now is waiting for you to bring it to Him, confess it, and ask for forgiveness, so you can walk in the Integrity , the fullness, that He has for you! What are you waiting for? He’s ready when you are…..
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Let’s Pray:
Father, this week in this bible study, we talk about Integrity and what that means. The resolution calls for us to no longer tolerate evil influences, even in the most justifiable form; either in our homes, or in ourselves. It calls for us to embrace and encourage a life of purity.
Lord, if there are things in our lives today that prevent us from living this life of purity, we ask that You reveal it to us now. Once they are revealed, Father, we will confess it out loud to You, so we can hear it with our own ears. We then will seek You for forgiveness of those things in our lives. In 1 John 1:9, Lord, Your word tells us that if we confess our sins, You are faithful and just to forgive us and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
We ask You today Lord to forgive us for the things in our life that are causing us to walk with an unclean heart, and outside of integrity. We ask that You create in us a clean heart, as we strive to grow deeper in our walk with You, and more intimate in our relationship with You.
In Jesus’ Name, AMEN!
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Your Assignment:
Answer below in the comment section what the word Integrity means to you. Who do you know in your life that walks with the utmost integrity? Tell us about that person.
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After you complete this assignment, then go back to your Facebook Group and see what Megan has for us for our daily activity. I’m sure it is going to be interesting!! If you do not belong to one of our FB Groups, and you wish to be added, please send us an email to: GirlfriendsCoffeeHour@gmail.com, and we’ll be happy to add you!!
Tomorrow, Megan will be with us to discuss the next chapter of this section: Structural Soundness
Have a GREAT Week Everyone! I look forward to reading your comments below!
The Resolution for Women – Chapter 8 – My Integrity
“Blessed Are Those Whose Way Is Blameless”
Psalm 119:1
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This week we will discuss “My Integrity” in this Chapter written by Priscilla Schirer, in the book “The Resolution for Women”. I have to say that this book has been one of the BEST books / bible studies I’ve ever done! It has truly been life-changing, not only for me, but for many other women doing this study with us here at Girlfriends Coffee Hour!!
This is our 3rd study at GCH; and it’s just one of MANY more to come! For just a moment, I would like to talk to you about Online Bible Studies, since we are close to the end of this study! I’d like to start by telling you first what an Online Bible Study is:
An Online Bible Study is a place where Christian and non-Christian women gather to study God’s word, online! It usually consists of a group of women who join a group, like Facebook, or Google Groups. Here at GCH, we first decide on the book that we want to study, and then we begin with blogging about it on our web site. We then take the study back to the groups for discussion in our Facebook Group.
Why an Online Bible Study?
There are so many benefits to doing an Online Study! I submitted this question to the women in our current groups, and this is what they came up with:
- Good way to meet and share faith with other women
- Go at your own pace
- Can go back and review at your own convenience
- Can participate from anywhere..carpool, school, vacation, etc.
- Can study in the convenience of your own home AND in your jammies!!
- Fellowship w/ women all across the world
- Expanding your experience outside of your denomination
- Participating in studies that may not be available in your area
- Fellowship of other Godly women that listen, support & encourage each other
- Meeting new folks
- Growing and going deeper in the word with each other
- You can study when it is convenient for you…day or night!
- Working women don’t have to worry about what time or day a public study takes place
- New Mommies can study with the group whenever the new baby allows her to study!
- Those who’ve had surgery and can’t leave the house don’t have to worry about missing bible study!
- And the list goes on……..
The benefits of an Online Bible Study outweigh the reasons not to. And to be fair, I want to share the points these women shared with me for the reasons an OBS doesn’t work out:
- Miss the one on one fellowship
- May spread yourself thin by participating in too many at a time
- Tempted to check in too many times a day
- Not being able to ‘really’ tell is someone is genuine
- If you’re not computer savvy you may get discouraged and quit
In my past experience of hosting Online Bible Studies and creating OBS Groups on Facebook, I can honestly say that it’s been one of the best experiences I’ve ever had in ministry! I’ve seen women grow in leaps and bounds. I’ve seen women become friends from all across the world! I’ve seen women experience the goodness of God from all kinds of different backgrounds. Women have made amazing friendships in these study groups. It has truly been an amazing blessing in so many ways!!
We will be introducing brand new studies coming up SOON!! Studies for our Women’s, Teens, Singles, and Fitness Ministries! We are so very excited to be able to offer YOU these studies, and to see what God will do in YOUR life through this ministry!
So, stay tuned! We’ll be making our announcements SOON!
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Your Reading Assignment this week can be found by clicking HERE
If you do not yet belong to one of our Facebook OBS Groups, and would like to be placed in one, please send us an email to: GirlfriendsCoffeeHour@gmail.com and we’ll be happy to place you!!
See you tomorrow … right back here for this weeks first lesson on Integrity!
The Resolution for Women Chapter 7 Weekly Review
Weekly Review
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Jeremiah 31:34
“I will forgive their wrongdoing,
and their sin I will remember no more”
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Here’s Christi with our Weekly Overview
AND our Burning Ceremony!! Be sure to watch!!
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It’s time to sign this Chapter’s Resolution:
My Forgiveness
I will forgive those who have wronged me
and reconcile with those I have wronged.
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Your Signature
I’ll see you again on Sunday with next weeks lesson schedule!
Have a GREAT Weekend!!
Resolution for Women: No More Circles
Is this where we find ourself each day? Is our life haunting us? Sometimes no matter where we are today, our past, our yesterdays or our years ago seem to crop up in our thoughts and sometimes in our actions because we never truly dealt with the “burdens of unforgiveness” that are buried in the crevices of our heart. The memories are always near the surface.
Do you know what the word burden means? Websters defines it as something that is carried, a load, something oppressive or worrisome. Priscilla describes it on Pg. 137 as something that weighs you down, it sits on you, restricts you from enjoying the new phases/freedoms that each season of life brings your way.
This is exactly what unforgiveness does in our life. It brings a burden upon us. It forces us to stay one dimensional. It keeps us repeating the same things round and round in circles and never allows us to move past “that place” because we can’t or won’t get rid of unforgiveness within us.
Why do we want to hold on to unforgiveness? Is it because we still want others to know we haven’t forgotten the hurt they caused us? I don’t know the answer to that question for everyone but each of us could answer it for ourselves. Maybe part of the reason is pride, maybe we feel if we forgive that person we are saying that person had the right to do wrong to me. Does that really matter anymore? Don’t we want freedom from it? After all we are the ones who are miserable from it not them.
Our lesson today has taught us three ways that forgiveness is reached through a combination of actions:
- We must refuse to store up or harbor grudges–don’t hold a debt over someones head or keep records of their wrongdoings-clear the decks and stop counting.
- We must leave room for God to act on our behalf —refuse the urge to retaliate, trust God to handle the issues.
- We must pray—pray for God to empower you to forgive, you can’t do it on your own strength.
I want to expand a little more on why we should forgive.
- Forgiveness is a pleasurable experience—did you know God designed forgiveness as a powerful blessing for us who have been hurt-did you know truly forgiving others can make us “more happy” than if we’d never been hurt.
- Forgiveness removes us from being entangled in the thing that hurt us—it sets us free from being bogged down or carrying baggage around-it gives us a terrific feeling-it helps us understand how God feels when He forgives us.
- Forgiveness allows us to open our self to the spectacular possibilities for a happy life-to open the curtain on what was dark and hurting to light and life and peace—aren’t we ready for some peace?
- Forgiveness allows us to LOVE again—to love and be loved—forgiveness is tough – but love is more valuable than the pain of unforgiveness.
- Forgiveness will set a prisoner free and we will discover that prisoner is us.
Let’s FORGIVE and leave all the rest to God to deal with.
Instead of continuing to re-hash old wounds/old hurts, instead of going around in circles let’s come full circle and do as God’s Word instructs us:
Colossians 3:13 “Just as the Lord has forgiven you, so you must also forgive.
We learned in this lesson that being a woman resolved to forgive can do the following: save friendships, rescue marriages, restore relationships, rebuild lives, refurbish businesses, help us to regain our very own self, allow us to live FREELY, LOVINGLY and WITH JOY! — This is the mission of this resolution, this is its purpose, for us to offer and extend “forgiveness” just as He has so wonderfully, abundantly and outlandishly poured out “forgiveness” for each of us.
- Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself, not something you do for someone else.
- To refuse to forgive means you are choosing to remain the victim – the hurts won’t heal until you forgive.
*****Let’s resolve to be forgiven as well as forgive*****
Your assignment: As you move forward with answering the questions in your study on Pg. 143 to be able to sign your resolution for this week – please take note that this is a journey that may take time and some counsel even – be willing to seek help so you fully understand and experience the benefits that “forgiveness” is designed to give and when you are ready (prayed up and committed) sign your name in the resolution box.
Let’s Pray: Thank you Lord for your special gift of “forgiveness”, help us not to continue going in circles in this path of unforgiveness but help us to release all that we are holding onto so we can begin to experience the freedom that “forgiveness” brings.
Now it’s time to go back to your Facebook Online Bible Study Group to see what your Daily Activity is!! I’m guessing it’s going to be a fun one!! If you are not currently in one our FB OBS Groups, and would like to be, please send an email to: GirlfriendsCoffeeHour@gmail.com, and we’ll be glad to add you!!
Love to all,
Beverly
Read all about Craig’s Resolution for Men Journey here:www.adversusmundi.wordpress.com
The Resolution for Women: All Clear
Jeremiah 31: 34
“I will forgive their wrongdoing and never again remember their sin.”
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Don’t you wish forgiveness was as easy as Priscilla describes in today’s chapter, using the “Delete” button? I mean look at the Hatfield’s and McCoy’s! Perhaps if only one of them had used the ‘Delete’ button years and years ago, the incredible family feud that has gone on for so many years, taking many lives, would have been long over – instead they have made history over a lifetime of unforgiveness. In scripture it tells us the following ~
“Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you” Ephesians 4:32
Being around someone you don’t like and being kind is one thing; however, forgiveness has to be the hardest pill for us to swallow. “Excuse me Lord, you want me to forgive Her“? [emphasis] How many of us have asked that question over and over with various people in our lives. It’s so much easier for us to just ignore people – stop associating with them – or chalking them off in our lives rather than doing as Jesus would and forgiving them. It’s built into our flesh – it’s human – there is no “delete” button.
How many of you have someone in your life that you need to forgive? How many have a dark cloud hanging over your head because this issue is not resolved? Doesn’t it truly keep cropping up? Perhaps you miss a family function because of this or you actually find yourself missing this person you’ve chosen not to forgive~ both situations very irritating, keeps the wound festering even long after the event. Unfortunately, we cannot seem to hit that “delete button” to free them and to free us.
Well, it’s time to hit the “delete” button. Scripture makes it clear. Jesus has made it clear. Do not let one more day go by without reaching way deep down inside of your heart to forgive to, lift the burden this carries on your life. Not only will you feel better yourself mentally and physically, but you will be following the desires of God’s heart. THIS is worth it all by itself!
So, if forgiving others is tough, what about the need to forgive yourself? Well, that’s a whole different story, huh!?
The following story is true and it breaks my heart to tell it; however, it’s a story that truly screams out forgiveness in every sense of the word so I need to share it.
I have a friend and when he was away one day, his oldest son was riding his bike outside and fell; his mother ran out the door to rescue him. Unfortunately, while mom was outside with her injured son, his 2-year-old brother went through an opened sliding glass door and into the pool drowning. Horrifying, right? RIGHT! Can you absolutely imagine the pain of this mother? Do you think she has forgiven herself today? The true answer is, I honestly do not know for sure. Her mistake cost her son’s life ~ that is a level of forgiveness I cannot even imagine having in this situation.
And, what about this little guy’s father? This baby boy was the apple of his eye, his heart – and now he was gone due to an accident caused by a simple mistake. An open door. And he wasn’t there to protect him. He couldn’t save him. Outside of not being able to forgive himself, what about forgiveness for his wife? The wife who left the door open that his baby went through The turmoil that must have (and likely still does) cause him agony. How does one dig that deep?
Here’s the GREAT part. Here’s the part we need to get and understand…..Priscilla says, “No human forgiveness is strong enough, not even your own, to ever free you from the torturous remainder of your offense and the cloak of guilt in it lays on your shoulders” – did you hear that NO HUMAN FORGIVENESS IS ENOUGH . There is only one way to lift that black cloud, to free yourself from the bondage and years of suffering and that is to accept the gift that Jesus Christ has given us – the gift of freedom – freedom from our sins. He forgives US – we in turn need to forgive others.
Priscilla says it best when she says, ‘He felt the crown of thorns pressed onto His head. He took the beating……..He hung on Golgotha’s tree. That’s when you received all the forgiveness you’ll ever need. When he cried, ‘It is finished!’. It was done.” – The ‘DELETE’ button pressed. For us. For each and every one of us.
Do not let another day go by without forgiving yourself or someone else. Press your Delete button today. Jesus did.
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Your Assignment:
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Love,
Kelley <3<3
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Resolution for Women: Forgiveness
The Lord has shown me that this week is going to be LIFE-CHANGING for some of you, as you reach out to Him and open your heart to what He has to say about forgiveness in this weeks lessons in The Resolution for Women.
I would like to share some statements about forgiveness from Priscilla, in this section of this book:
- forgiveness of your sins is something that Christ suffered a terrifying death to give you.
- the capacity to forgive yourself is personally impossible. You can’t do it. Nobody can.
- the bible doesn’t tell us to forgive ourselves.
- you know it’s the right thing to do, even if it’s the last thing you feel like doing.
- a wounded heart cannot open up either to fully love or receive love.
- forgiveness is a miracle.
- only one power, one invisible force, one miracle can clear away the eroding illness that robs you of peace and love and the enjoyment of life.
- only God can alter your pattern, quicken your step, expand your reach, and get you out of those circles
- forgiveness is designed to rescue you, while bringing with it the added by-product of extending the impact of your grace toward those you love.
“Just as the Lord has forgiven you,
so you must also forgive.”
Colossians 3:13
Forgiveness is something that we must offer others, as He has so wonderfully, abundantly, and outlandishly poured it out on us.
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Your Assignment Today:
On a piece of paper, draw a line down through the center, to make two columns. On the left side, list the names of those you know you need to forgive. On the right side, list the sins you personally have committed. Take that list to Jesus. Sit at His feet today. Speak out each name that you have on your list, and each sin that is listed. Ask the Lord to speak to Your heart about each one, and how you can release them to Him. This may take you all week, but do this every day if you need to. Add to the list each day, if needed. But we are going to have a BURNING CEREMONY at the end of this week, and we are going to take that list and BURN IT at the foot of the cross, as a symbol of our forgiveness for each one, and HIS forgiveness toward our sins.
Let’s Pray:
Father, I lift each person who is reading this blog today. I ask You Lord, as they read this chapter, and this blog, each day this week, that You bring them one step closer to freeing them through the act of forgiveness Lord. Whether it’s an act of forgiveness toward another person, Lord, or through them asking You to forgive them for their own sins. I pray that each persons heart will be prepared and ready to receive from You, Lord. Reach down deep into their hearts. HEAL their brokenness Lord. HEAL the wounds that have kept them in bondage all this time. HEAL the pain they have carried for so long, Lord.
I pray for FREEDOM to come to each person this week, Lord. I pray for the chains to be broken, that have held them captive for so long. I pray for the prison doors to break forth, and each person to step out of that prison that has held them captive to unforgiveness, for so very long, Lord.
I pray for Your healing Lord to come forth. I pray for Your anointing to flow over them, and cover them from the top of their heads to the soles of their feet, Lord! Release them Lord! Release them as they CHOOSE to forgive this week. As they CHOOSE to make forgiveness a priority in their lives, Lord. Forgive them, Lord, for the sins that they themselves have committed, also.
I thank You now, Lord, for the work You are doing in each heart. I thank You for the healing You are bringing forth this week. I thank You in advance for the lives that YOU are changing this week, In Your Precious Name, AMEN!!!
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Now, it’s time to go back to our Facebook OBS Group, and see what Megan has in store for us this week. This week is YOUR week! If you do not belong to one of our Facebook OBS Groups, and would like to, please email us at GirlfriendsCoffeeHour@gmail.com, and we’ll be happy to add you!
I will be lifting you in prayer this week. I KNOW God is going to set YOU FREE! Expect that from Him, as you read each lesson in this weeks study!
Be Blessed & Be a Blessing to Someone Else Today,
Resolution for Women: Chapter 7 — My Forgiveness
This week we embark upon a resolution to release others from the prison of our hurt and anger.
Forgiveness – for some this brings a flood of bad memories. For others, it brings freedom and liberation! Forgiveness for some can be a very difficult action. It means releasing the sins of others that have hurt us. It means having to “let go” of what we have been harboring for years. It means stepping out of something that has become a “normal” in our life, into something of the unknown.
For some, “letting go” means fear. “This is all I have known. What will life be like without it?” It means, not having the emptiness, anger, bitterness, and hatred, on the inside anymore. These are things that some have come to adopt into their lives and have held them close inside their hearts for many many years. It means stepping out of something that has become “comfortable” to them. Something they have learned to live with. Something that sleeps, eats, watches television, plays, works and travels with them, everywhere they go. It’s like the shadow that has been following them …. For all these years!
For some, forgiveness means the wrong was made right. What I mean by this, is that they fear by forgiving someone who has wronged them, it’s like saying what they have done to them is okay now. No. That is not what forgiveness is, at all. Hurt is not okay; whether it’s emotional, physical, or mental. Forgiveness does not grant freedom to the sin….it grants freedom to the one who was sinned upon. Do you know what I mean by that? I mean forgiveness is for YOUR benefit….in so many different ways.
Forgiveness means freedom for YOU!! It means stepping out of those prison walls that have held you captive all these years. Whether the sin committed was towards you, or you yourself committed the sin….forgiveness awaits you! And I can’t wait for you to read this chapter this week and find out what God has waiting just for YOU!! “Whom the Son sets free is free indeed”!!
Forgiveness IS a beautiful thing!
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Your Assignment:
This weeks reading assignment can by found by clicking HERE
Let’s pray:
Father, I pray for each and every woman that is reading this blog and this chapter this week. I pray Lord that You will open their ears and their eyes Lord to what You have for them! Lord, I pray that the words of this book will jump off the pages for them, and show them just how liberating Your true forgiveness really is! Lord, walk alongside each one of them; talk to them; show them Lord what harboring unforgiveness is doing to them, not only spiritually, but physically and emotionally, as well. Lord, I pray for those who are harboring unforgiveness this week, that this will be their week that the chains of bondage will be released, and the prison doors will swing wide open, and they will be able to walk in total freedom, in Your Precious Name, Lord. For whom You set free Lord, is free indeed!! AMEN!!
We’ll see you tomorrow….right here, same time, same place! Enjoy the rest of your day!
Living Intentionally to Forgive and Accept Forgiveness,
