November 21, 2024

CHRISTLife – Ten: A Self-Opinion Too High

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Have you ever said to yourself, either verbally or mentally:

In light of a problem:   “I’ve got this. I can handle it by myself.

Or after an accomplishment:  “I did it myself with no help from anyone!

Those statements may indicate a self-opinion that is too high. The truth is we can’t—don’t—do anything without the help of God. He is our breath and life.

God who gives you the breath of life and controls your destiny!
Daniel 5:23 NLT

And He (God) is not served by human hands, as if He needed anything.
Rather, He Himself gives everyone life and breath and everything else…
For in Him we live and move and have our being.
Acts 17:25 and 28 NIV

The ‘puffed up’ attitude can become a habitual part of our lives. The way to counter a self-opinion that is too high is to compare ourselves with God as His Word describes Him, and us. The benefit to this for me (and hopefully for you) is that it reminds me (us) of how great God is and still how loving He is toward us. It is humbling to realize that:

All people are like grass, and all their glory is like the flowers of the field;
the grass withers and the flowers fall, but the Word of the Lord endures forever.
I Peter 1:24,25

Let’s look at just a few other Scriptures that will help us balance our self-image with His Truth:

I am — “a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes.”
James 4:14 ESV

God is  “from everlasting to everlasting You are God.”
Psalm 90:2

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I am accountable — “So then each of us will give an account of ourselves to God.
Romans 14:12

God is — “…the great God, the great King above all gods.”
Psalm 95:3

God is our Creator; we are His creation. Do you see in just these few verses what a vast difference there is? We can’t be God, but that is the lie which an inflated self-opinion would lead us to believe, whether we are aware of it or not. (Remember Satan’s fall as told in Isaiah 14:12-15.) Instead the truth is that we need God. We need His guidance. Without Him, our life and our accomplishments don’t amount “to a hill of beans” (a trifling value).

Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked.
Galatians 6:7

Lord, I know that people’s lives are not their own; it is not for them to direct their steps.
Jeremiah 10:23

An inflated self-image is a dangerous trap. Look at some of the verses from the end of the chapter that point this out:

Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall.
Proverbs 16:18

The Lord Almighty has a day in store for all the proud and lofty…they will be humbled.
Isaiah 2:12

‘God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.’
Submit yourselves, then to God. Resist the devil and he will flee from you.
James 4:6,7 ESV

Hmmm, if I’m correct, that last Scripture (in James chapter 4) is saying that pride, arrogance, too-high a self-image are each sin that we should run from. Ouch! Okay I get it. This is not just some little hiccup in our personality. This is a sin, a wedge that will separate us from God. I want to get rid of that, how about you!? This next Scripture is our guide to help us correct our self-image to line up with God’s image of and plan for us:

Come near to God, and He will come near to you.
Wash your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts…
Humble yourselves before the Lord, and He will lift you up.
James 4:8-10

Praise God, He loves us enough to point out the areas we need to change, and then shows us exactly how to do it.

We are, after all, fallen and flawed. We are like the sheep in Isaiah 53:6, we “…have gone astray, each of us has turned to our own way….” But the Good News is that God is the Giver of life! (Psalm 36:9, NCV). Jesus knows His sheep, and as we humble ourselves more and more to Him we hear and know His voice and we follow Him.

The One who enters by the gate is the Shepherd of the sheep…
and the sheep listen to His voice.
He calls His own sheep by name and leads them out…
and His sheep follow Him because they know His voice.
John 10:2-4

So instead of being in the dangerous position of a self-opinion that is too high, and will surely cause us to wander “off the cliff of pride,” let’s humble ourselves before our God Almighty. Let’s continue to listen to His voice, to follow Him, and get rid of the high self-opinions He sees as sin. He is Our Good Shepherd who wants only the best for us, His sheep.

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Dear Lord God Almighty, we humble ourselves before You today. We ask You, Lord, to show us any sin of a “self-opinion too high.” Thank You for Your Word that not only reveals our sins, but also reveals Who You are, who we are in Your sight, and just how much You love us. We want to repent of pride today and receive Your forgiveness. We want to know Your voice and follow You because You are our Good Shepherd Who loves us and wants only the best for us, Your sheep. Thank You. In Jesus Name, Amen.

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About Clella Fox

Clella Fox - Blog Contributor
Clella and her husband, Steve, have been married 45 years. They live in Hilliard, OH, and are lovingly surrounded by their two daughters, their husbands, six grandkids, and their Havanese, Muffin. Clella has been a follower of Christ most of her life, and has been involved in many church ministries as well as numerous short-term foreign mission trips. Steve and she co-direct Royal Family KIDS of Franklin County summer camp for children who have been removed from abusive situations and placed in foster care. Besides her family and God, Clella loves God’s nature, reading, crafts, and travel. She enjoys studying God’s Word along with other believers, and has found Girlfriends’ Coffee Hour a great place for learning, prayer, and fellowship.

Comments

  1. Peggy Kahle says

    Such an easy trap to fall I into–thinking we are “all that.”

    • Clella Fox says

      So true, Peggy. Thankfully as children of God, we have His Word to remind us, convict us, and change us. He loves us that much! 🙂

  2. Thank you for this reminder Clella 🙂

    • Clella Fox says

      You’re welcome, Kim, and thank you for reading and commenting. 🙂 You know the saying, “When you are pointing at someone else, remember 4 fingers are pointing back at yourself.” So I’ve done my own examination and repenting this week. 🙂 So thankful He is forgiving!

  3. “…cliff of pride…” so descriptive…oh-so-true! how blessed we are that our Father tells us over and over how much He desires to take care of us…we should believe Him! thanks for these Truthful reminders, clella!! <3

    • Clella Fox says

      I agree, Coleen. Made me think how when someone is telling us something, we might say, “You’ve got to be kidding!” Meaning, “I don’t really believe that.” Well, we never need to doubt God. We never need to say, “God, You’ve got to be kidding!” His Word is “yes and amen.” 2 Corinthians 1:20 We can believe Him!!

  4. Oh how I know this to be true! “I got this” always has a price & humility doesn’t come easy. Thanks for sharing Clella

    • You’re welcome, Cynda. Your words are true as well. May we learn to humble ourselves in the sight of the Lord so He can lift us up! (James 4:10)

  5. Sharon Creps says

    I struggle with feeling good about a job well done and knowing when I cross the line into pride. I find that when I am feeling good about something I did, I try to remember that it is God’s gifts into my life that give me the ability and thank him. It is hard to always remember to do this. I suppose this is a form of humbling myself.

    • Clella Fox says

      Sharon, I think most of us can relate to your “balancing act.” I agree that humbling ourselves and remembering that all we have, including our abilities and gifts, come from our Father is the best way to crush pride. Thanks for sharing! 🙂

  6. I have many times said “I got this” and did not in fact have it and the times I did, was merely by his grace. I will remember that always he is in charge and humble myself to him. Our king!

    • Clella Fox says

      Yes Heather, that’s my prayer too, that I will remember that our King is in charge and humble myself before Him–always! 🙂