April 20, 2024

Let My Life Be the Proof…of His Love

Let my life be the proof … the proof of Your LOVE
Let my LOVE look like You and what You’re made of
How You lived, how You died—LOVE is sacrifice
So let my life be the proof … the proof of Your LOVE

Do these words echo in your heart as they do my own?  So, may I ask you then, what does ‘…let my life be the proof of Your LOVE…’ look like?  (I would love to know your answer!  Please leave a note in the comment section below.)

Here is one answer that I am sure of:

By this we know love, that He laid down His life for us,
and we ought to lay down our lives for the brothers.
Little children, let us not love in word or talk but in deed and in truth.
1 John 3:16 and 18

If my life truly is the proof of His LOVE, then there is sacrifice as well as action, not simply words.

In the Gospel of John, there is also this record of Jesus teaching His disciples about LOVE, and giving them command to follow.

“When you bear much fruit, My Father is honored and glorified, and you show and prove yourselves to be true followers of Mine. I have loved you, [just] as the Father has loved Me; abide in My love.  If you keep My commandments, you will abide in My LOVE and live on in it, just as I have obeyed My Father’s commandments and live on in His LOVE.  I have told you these things, that My joy and delight may be in you, and that your joy and gladness may be of full measure and complete and overflowing.  This is My commandment: that you LOVE one another [just] as I have LOVED you.  No one has greater LOVE than to lay down (give up) his own life for his friends.  You are My friends if you keep on doing the things which I command you to do.  I do not call you servants any longer, for the servant does not know what his master is doing.  But I have called you My friends, because I have made known to you everything that I have heard from My Father….This is what I command you: that you LOVE one another.”  (chapter 13:8-15, 17)

Jesus gave those who walked Him and lived with Him and saw with their very own eyes how He perfectly LOVED many, many examples of how to LOVE.  They were with Him when:

  • He healed (Mark 3:10)
  • He brought back the dead to life (Luke 7:12-15)
  • He cast evil spirits out (Matthew 8:16)
  • He miraculously fed thousands (Mark 6:31-44)
  • He saved a sinful woman from being stoned to death (John 8:3-11)
  • He touched lepers (Mark 1:40-45)
  • He actually washed their own feet (John 13:5-13)
  •  A few of them were even there when, dying on the Cross, He asked His Father to forgive those crucifying Him (Luke 23:34).

They were eyewitnesses and recipients of His compassion and His care and His LOVE.

Jesus not only taught them by His example but He clearly and purposefully gave them instructions for when He was gone.

This is how everyone will know that you are My disciples,
if you have LOVE for one another.
John 13:35

Simply put, LOVE—in order to be LOVE—must be shown through our actions, not just through our words and how we feel.  Our LOVING actions ARE the proof.  When we choose to obey God and to LOVE others in the way that He has told us…it is LOVE just like Jesus’ love.  Here’s the best list of actions that ARE the proof that I know….

Love is patient,
Love is kind and is not jealous;
Love does not brag and is not arrogant,
does not act unbecomingly;
It does not seek its own, is not provoked,
does not take into account a wrong suffered,
does not rejoice in unrighteousness,
but rejoices with the truth;
bears all things, believes all things,
hopes all things, endures all things.
Love never fails;
1 Corinthians 13:4-8

And lastly—but of vital importance—is to always remember who we are AND Whose we are!  Jesus pointedly stated,

I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in Me and I in him,
he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from Me you can do nothing.
John 15:5

Nothing.  (ummm, that IS what Jesus said.)  Nothing of importance, nothing of value, nothing of eternal weight.  But, as we abide in Him, and follow His direction and example, we can be instruments in the Master’s hand.  We can be part of His purpose and plan.  Our lives CAN be the proof of His LOVE!

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Will you pray with me, please?

Dear Lord, how incredibly thankful we are that You did not just demand that we LOVE…You prepared our hearts. You gave us examples (oh, so many!). You promised to help us. You gave us much instruction. You gave us the Holy Spirit to be our Helper!  We so desire to LOVE as You LOVED, Lord!  We so yearn to be Your hands and feet!  We so want to help to draw others to You, as we have been drawn!  Please help us to be humble, recognizing our immense need for Your help!  By God’s grace and mercy, may we bring glory to our Father as we live lives that ARE the proof of Your LOVE!  Thank You, Lord…we pray and ask these things in Your name, amen!

Let all that you do be done in LOVE.

1 Corinthians 16:14

Praying for each of you!

  coleen

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About coleen hayden

Coleen Hayden – Director of Women's Ministry - Prayer Ministry Leader - Blog Contributor
Coleen and her husband Robert have been married for 19 years and currently live in the Capital District area of New York State. They have one beautiful daughter, Kassia, who is married to Matt, and 4 delightful grandchildren Elijah, Kaylie Joy, Levi, and Rebekah. She enjoys sewing, cooking, and playing the piano.

Comments

  1. Gena Ward says

    A life that is proof of His love is filled with love, forgiveness, and grace. A daily renewal of His Spirit through His grace is the only way to live a life that shows a perfect example of Christs love to others. At least that’s my opinion of what it means to live a life that is proof of His love.

  2. I visited with a friend I will describe as a “rough-edged” Christian. She had a tough life and lives in an environment with very few mature Christians so her growth in the Lord is slow but she sincerely loves Him and is wanting to live her life for Him. As we were visiting, she shared with me some things that she believes she needs to change in her life and her frustrations with it not happening quickly enough. Then she said to me, “Thank you, Clella, you don’t judge me.” For this friend that is proof of His Love in my life. Because I love her and haven’t turned my back on her for her “faults/weaknesses”, she knows God’s love through me and wants to grow in Him.

    • choosing to not judge is surely another ‘proof of His love,’ clella! you are being an instrument of your Lord to help draw your friend to Him. by His grace! <3

  3. joann cochran says

    Wow! So sweet to be reminded of how deep his love is. I am challenged daily to pick up my own cross and follow his example. Praise God for his Holy Spirit who prods encourages reminds and leads. And thank you lord for a new day and another opportunity to get it right.

  4. Jennifer says

    First of all, this is one of my favorite songs 🙂

    While most of you do not know the circumstances our family is facing, those of you who do will understand when I say that as I read this, I felt like God spoke to my heart “That is what this is all about.” <3

    I am so thankful for the ways He shows His love, the ways He is continually bringing it more to life in me, the opprotunities I have to live it and more clearly recognize its depth, and the promise that because of His love, we will not only come through this stronger, but others will also see the power of His grace and love in and through us. <3

    • amen, amen, amen. thanking God, jennifer, for all that He is doing to help you live your life to be the proof of His love! praying along with you! <3

  5. Coleen, you have blessed my heart again with your words, scripture, and prayer. What a wonderful focus for this weekend! Like the ladies said above, God “proves” His love through the love we share. He tailors our love to fit the needs of those around us. That’s such a relief to me! I don’t have to ‘decide’ or figure out how to love; I just have to choose to love and He will do the rest. Thank you!

  6. To answer your question, let my life be the proof of your love means to me that I need to be living in a way that lets everyone see what is inside of my heart, God’s love. It means I need to let God’s love in my heart pour out to everyone to see Him, not me. I want to live a way in which I am not in the way of letting God’s love meet others.

    I love your post Coleen and I love you!

  7. diane, sounds like a really good way to live AND to love! keep being the ‘proof’ of His love! Godloves you, sweetheart…and i do too! <3