April 26, 2024

Teresa’s Journey to GCH: decaf!

Introducing……

GCH: decaf blogger Teresa Bolme

Yesterday was a big day in our family.  My husband David and I “officially and legally” became parents…again! God has given us three beautiful, biological daughters who are now 22, 18 and 16 years old.  Today, the courts gave us three more sisters (18, 16, and 14 years old).  You don’t have to be very good at math to add 3 + 3 = 6 daughters in our household…every day.  The three “new” daughters have two older sisters who have also lived with us.  They are 21 and 20 years old and are working and off at college (but home on breaks).  God has chosen to place eight (8) daughters in our home and we couldn’t feel more blessed.

Most people looking from the outside in cannot understand the work God has done in our family.  We definitely stand out in a crowd.  This family has been years in the making.  Like most stories, the facts don’t add up if you try to make sense of them looking forward.  Only when we look back can we see God’s fingerprints all over our lives.  He placed me on a path at twelve years old that brought me to where He has me today.   That is why teens and teen ministry is so important to me.  God can begin using us as soon as we surrender our hearts and lives to Him.

1 Timothy 4:12

Don’t let anyone look down on you because you are young,

but set an example for the believers in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith and in purity.

Deuteronomy 11:19

Teach them (values, scripture, morals)  to your children,  talking about them when you sit at home

and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.

All of my girls have given their hearts to the Lord and have a heart to serve Him.  They have all experienced their own struggles with their worth, body image, social issues, love, finding friends, depression, serving God and learning to live a life of faith.  My girls and I welcome you and your girls to come along with us as we study “A Daughter’s Worth” through GCH:decaf.  We have committed as a family to learn and grow together.  Please come along with us.

My name is Teresa Bolme.  I am honored to be part of Girlfriend’s Coffee Hour: decaf.  I leave you with a quote from Mother Teresa,

“We think sometimes that poverty is only being hungry, naked and homeless. The poverty of being unwanted, unloved and uncared for is the greatest poverty. We must start in our own homes to remedy this kind of poverty.”

Not everyone can be a Mother Teresa, but I can be a Mama T.  Come on along as we dive into the Word.  Bring your daughters, moms and sisters.  There is always room for one more!

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Please “like” our Facebook Community page here to stay up-to-date on all we are doing for teens over here at GCH: decaf: https://www.facebook.com/GCHdecaf.

Be sure to email our lead barista, Megan, if you would like to join a small group or if you have any questions about the study or this ministry. She would love to hear from you!  Teens@girlfriendscoffeehour.com .

Our first study will start October 1st!  We will be studying A Daughter’s Worth by Ava Sturgeon.

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Teresa Bolme lives in middle Tennessee with David (her husband of 26 years), eight daughters (22 years – 14 years old) and her Rock Dog, Angus.  She has been a not-so-stay-at-home mom for the last 18+ years.  She is her family’s biggest cheerleader, devoted counselor and caretaker.

Teresa is a soccer mom, has been a dance mom, a tutor for all her girls and a volunteer in the school system for the girl’s teachers and administration.  She is affectionately called “Mama T” by those who know her and have been loved by her.  She balances a very diverse household of strong, intelligent, godly young women and supports an awesome husband and father.

God has chosen to use Teresa to reach broken children, teens and women (most who were broken as children).  She has been a ministry planter, a home missionary and a support to ministry families and staff.  She is currently completing her degree in Psychology with an emphasis in Christian Counseling with Liberty University Online.

Teresa has been participating in and leading women in Online Bible Study for about a year now.  She has taught children and middle schoolers in Sunday School and AWANA Truth and Training Director for several years.  She believes her life mission to be to teach others this fundamental truth that has sustained her throughout her life:

Proverbs 3:5-6

5 Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; 6  In all your ways submit to him, and he will direct your paths.(make your paths straight)

We are THRILLED to have Teresa working with us on our Leadership Team and with your precious daughters.

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About Megan Smidt

Megan Smidt – Co-Founder of Girlfriends Coffee Hour
Megan and her husband Craig live in Murfreesboro, Tennessee, along with their 5 children ranging in age from 21 years old to 14. Megan is a Certified Christian Life Coach specializing in Relationship Coaching and more specifically, Blended Family Relationships. She also works part-time as Personal Assistant to Christian Musician Yancy. She loves to travel and spend time with family and friends. She enjoys reading, music, movies, photography, paper crafting, sewing and roller skating.

Comments

  1. Reblogged this on Glory to Glory and commented:
    I thank God every day for crossing my path with Teresa Bolme! I pray that her journey is a blessing to you and I am honored toserve with her in this ministry for teen girls! Be sure to leave her a comment welcomming her to GCH:decaf! 🙂

    • Thanks for the push, sister! I am so glad God brought us together all those years ago through our kids and now we are here for us. Love you and can't wait to see what God does with this awesome group of women.

  2. Mama T …. you did GREAT!!! Love this and love how you are sharing the story that God has given you and your FAMILY!! Thanks for saying "YES" to God on more than one occassion!!! LOVE your heart and you!

    • Donna, thank you for the love and support. You have been a blessing to me more than you will ever know. I'm watching you, you know. You are a very good example of walking out "Christ" and Kingdom work. I need to make you a cape, too.

  3. Suzanne Scarbrough says

    I love you and miss you! I am passing this link on to Kelsey.

    • Oh, Suzanne, I miss your family too! You guys have meant so much to me as we began walking out our lives of ministry together. You have done a beautiful job with the jewels God gave you. Love you sister!

  4. Heather Shepard says

    Love this!

    • Thanks, Heather! You know we need someone with your heart in this ministry, too. I love you girl. Come join us. I can't wait to share you with my new friends. <3

  5. Great job Teresa. God knows what He is doing and He chose to perfect person to be a part of this ministry. You are touching the kindgdom of God with your love for others. You have touched my life more than you will ever know. Thanks for all you have done for me. Love ya..

    • Angie, you are such an encourager. I am so proud of your bravery and faith. I thank you for taking time to read my first blog and to give me your support. God has big plans for us, my friend. Love you.

  6. this is beautiful!!! I have three sisters, there is something about sisters that is just so special-unexplainable really, I am sooooo envious of all of your daughters….having 7 sisters is beyond a blessing, YOU are beyond a blessing!!! cannot wait to get to know you better…..by the way the last paragraph is my fave:)

    • Thank you Diane. I grew up with brothers so this sister thing is new to me. I always wanted a sister while I was growing up. I can honestly say that God has given me the desire of my heart with godly women and now daughters surrounding me. We have been so blessed. Thanks for the encouragement.

  7. Beautiful post, Teresa!! I am thrilled to have you on board with us. I can't wait to see how God is going to use your story!!! 🙂 What a blessing your family is, AND what a blessing you are to the girls who needed you!! 🙂