I can relate to Stasi’s story during the introduction of this chapter—not in relation to gardening—but to various other “assaults” in my life. I can recall the first few events happening, words being said; in other words, the first few “hail stones” falling. I can recall watching the damage happening from afar but feeling as if I was powerless and couldn’t do anything. And I remember standing in the middle of the destruction, asking myself question after question. The loudest question being “Why?”
I am a firm believer in taking time in stepping back to look at the whole story. Taking the time to see all the who’s, what’s, when’s, where’s and why’s of a situation. It doesn’t mean that I am going to change my opinion of a situation or change my actions, but I like to know the whole story. In school when we were told to read a passage, I would read some above and below that passage to get a better understanding. When I read a Scripture in the Bible, I do the same. I read a few more verses above and below the highlighted one.
Looking more into the story at either end can answer questions we are holding in our minds, it can clarify confusion, or bring a hidden part of the situation to light. When I’m reading, I like to find one or two things in the material that especially stand out to me, that touch my heart. Today it was these words:
“But, in order to understand the lingering doubts in your own heart regarding your femininity, in order to understand why it is so rare to encounter a truly alive and vibrant woman, you must hear more of the story.”
We must hear more of the story. While doing this can answer questions and help to reveal some of the unknowns, it can also bring to light things we have tried so hard to forget. I urge each and every one of us to be willing to look at more of the story—more of our story. I take great peace in knowing that this journey may be tough at times, but the Author of our stories is walking along with us.
All who hate me whisper against me,
Imagining the worst for me.
Psalm 41:7 (NLT)
Read more of the story…
I know you are pleased with me,
for you have not let my enemies triumph over me.
You have preserved my life because I am innocent;
you have brought me into your presence forever.
Psalm 41:11-12 (NLT)
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Let’s Pray:
Dear Heavenly Father, our stories are sometimes things we choose to hide. To step back and look at the various assaults in our lives can bring pain that we have tried hard to hide, and forget. As we see in Your Scriptures, Lord, looking at the whole story can bring peace and understanding; it can bring healing. Give us courage and peace as we walk these journeys, as we look more into the story to find answers for questions we have had for a lifetime. Thank You, Lord, for walking with us. Thank You for not leaving us to do this alone. In Jesus’ name we pray. Amen.
Your Assignment:
Looking into more of the story can be an intimidating task. What is your initial reaction on doing this? On looking at the whole story?
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I also like to look at the whole story. but sometimes I am afraid to tell me whole story to people…it’s a lot to digest. It does give insight to where we are in our lives though. I also think when we know someone’s whole story it it much easier to be forgiving and empathetic. We all have a story.