December 23, 2024

A Daughter’s Worth Week 7/ Day 5: Families Bless Us

Proverbs 17:6

Children’s children are a crown to the aged, and parents are the pride of their children.

Ok girls, how many of you grew up in the perfect family where everyone is always happy and smiling? Where no one is trying to put the blame on somebody else and mom and dad never exchange dirty looks or utter harsh words? I wish I could put my hand up and say that I grew up in the perfect family, but that would be a lie!

I am one of 5 children, I have 3 brothers and 1 sister. My mom has been married 3 times and all 3 husbands passed away. When my mom was 6 months pregnant with me, my dad, her 2nd husband was hit by a train. I was about 2 years old when she married again and about 4 when my baby brother was born.

I remember being extremely jealous of the new addition to our family because he had someone to call dad. But what an amazing man my step dad was. Even though he had his very own son, he still treated the 4 of us as his own. He put the 4 of through college, and when my brother was in his senior year in high school, my step dad passed away and the 4 of us stepped up and was able to pay my baby brother’s college tuition.

Things might not always be the way we want them to be, but when we think back on everything that has happened in our lives , we can see how God and our families have blessed us.

Our parents might work on our nerves at times, they might fail and dissapoint us, they might give us advice that we think we don’t need because we know it all. But just think back on who was there to hold your hand when you did not feel well, who made you cookies when that guy dumped you, or who paid for that outfit that you really, really wanted. We might not always agree with everything they say and do, but our families are a blessing.

Be blessed!

Edwina

Let us pray:

Father God, today we want to thank you for our families. Although we do not always get along, we want to thank you for each one of them. I pray that in tough situations we will come to You, knowing that You know best and will guide us in the right direction. Amen.

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About Edwina Howard

Edwina Botha Howard – Blog Contributor – Singles Ministry
Edwina currently lives in Cape Town, South Africa. She is married to an awesome man and has an adorable 12 year old daughter. She is an International English Teacher and has traveled quit extensively. Edwina loves to read and travel, experiencing new cultures and trying out foreign cuisine. Her message to others is stop fretting, God is in control!

Comments

  1. I am so glad that God provided you with a step dad that provided for your earthly needs. He obviously gave you good guidance as you grew to mature into a responsible young woman and sister. I love your heart for others, Jackie.

  2. Oh Edwina! What an awesome step dad! Thank God for you all as well for being able to step up and help put your baby brother through college! God is so awesome like that 🙂 <3

  3. coleen hayden says

    thanks for sharing how God has helped you all along, edwina! <3

  4. Beautiful, Edwina!! What a blessing to your brother, I'm sure!! Your stepdad sounds like he was an amazing man!!! ((HUGS))