{"id":9611,"date":"2013-02-20T00:01:59","date_gmt":"2013-02-20T05:01:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/girlfriendscoffeehour.com\/?p=9611"},"modified":"2013-02-19T22:42:17","modified_gmt":"2013-02-20T03:42:17","slug":"captivating-chapter-7-what-does-god-want-from-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/girlfriendscoffeehour.com\/wordpress\/2013\/02\/20\/captivating-chapter-7-what-does-god-want-from-you\/","title":{"rendered":"Captivating:  Chapter 7 &#8211; What Does God Want From You?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When I was a child, I had a \u201cbest friend.\u201d\u00a0 All of my other classmates knew that she was my best friend not just by the fact that our names rhymed (my name is Carissa, her name was Larissa), but because we were always together \u2013 on the playground, in the classroom, even outside of school.\u00a0 And we got along famously, too. It didn\u2019t matter if we were running around outside in the woods or doing our stinky homework together \u2013 we were always having a ball.<\/p>\n<p>As I grew older, we grew apart, like many relationships do.\u00a0 Since then, I\u2019ve been in search for a friendship like that.\u00a0 I\u2019ve been searching for a buddy who \u201cgets me,\u201d someone I don\u2019t have to be anyone but \u201cme\u201d around.\u00a0 I don\u2019t have to explain my weirdness or hide my oddball nature.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you\u2019re like me. You\u2019re still searching for a relationship, whether romantic or not.\u00a0 One where the other person just \u201cgets you.\u201d\u00a0 Do you know that God \u201cgets you?\u201d\u00a0 You don\u2019t need to hide your true self from Him; He created you to be just the way you are.\u00a0 So when you\u2019re talking to Him and spending time with Him, you can just be yourself.\u00a0 He is your oldest, most true friend.\u00a0 <em>He knew you before you were even born!<\/em> <strong>Jeremiah 1:5<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201cJesus loves you.\u201d A common phrase, probably one we\u2019ve heard a thousand times. \u00a0So with any solid relationship, affection is a two-way street.\u00a0 I\u2019ve always been told, \u201cCarissa, YOU choose your friends.\u201d\u00a0 So I ask you: Have you chosen God?\u00a0 Do you love Him as He loves you?<\/p>\n<p>Because you are created in the image of God, your desire to be romanced is the same as our Father\u2019s.\u00a0 <em>He desires our love and attention<\/em>.\u00a0 \u201cHe wants to pour His love into your heart and He longs to have you pour yours into His.\u00a0 He wants your deep heart, that centerplace within that is the truest YOU.\u00a0 He is not interested in intimacy with the woman you think you are supposed to be.\u00a0 He wants intimacy with the <em><strong>real YOU<\/strong><\/em>\u201d (page 121).<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/girlfriendscoffeehour.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/WhatDoesGodWant.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-9644\" alt=\"WhatDoesGodWant\" src=\"http:\/\/girlfriendscoffeehour.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/WhatDoesGodWant.jpg\" width=\"500\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/girlfriendscoffeehour.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/WhatDoesGodWant.jpg 500w, https:\/\/girlfriendscoffeehour.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/WhatDoesGodWant-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/girlfriendscoffeehour.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/WhatDoesGodWant-300x300.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Our authors point out that we were made to worship.\u00a0 I\u2019m not talking about singing hymns or praise songs in church every Sunday or while you\u2019re driving in your car.\u00a0 I\u2019m speaking about worship as \u201cwhat we give our hearts away to in return for a promise of Life\u201d (page 123).\u00a0 That \u201cLife\u201d our authors reference&#8212;I believe that\u2019s the part of our hearts that was created to be filled by only One Being: Jesus.\u00a0 It\u2019s unable to be filled with anything else; not money, not success, not a man, not a family, not anything else that this world can offer.\u00a0 <em><strong>Only Jesus can give you the Life and the Love you need so desperately.<\/strong><\/em> So I ask you: Have you let Him in? Have you given Him your love that He so desires?\u00a0 Do you know your true Father&#8212;the One who loves you <i>just the way you are?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>I love the lesson about Mary versus Martha in Luke 10.\u00a0 \u201c[Mary] dropped everything and sat at His feet, fixing the gaze of her eyes and the gaze of her heart upon Him.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<em>So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.<\/em>\u201d <strong>2 Corinthians 4:8<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I pray you fix your eyes on Who is unseen right now, but Who we will soon see one glorious day in Heaven&#8212;our Father and ultimate Lover, Jesus Christ.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Praise Him!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Carissa<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u00a0******************<\/p>\n<p><strong>Let\u2019s Pray:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Father in Heaven, I thank You for Your unconditional and unsurpassed love.\u00a0 I pray that You become our focus, that each day we start by fixing our eyes on You.\u00a0 You alone can fill the missing relationship in our lives.\u00a0 You alone can give us the love and attention we crave.\u00a0 I pray that we can better show You how much we love and adore You, too.\u00a0 In Your Precious Name, Amen.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Your Assignment:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>What have you given your heart to? What are you worshipping daily? What is distracting you? Make a list. Share it here with us, in the comment section, if you wish.<\/p>\n<p>Jesus is the only One worthy of our heart&#8217;s devotion. Mary recognized who Jesus was&#8212;the <em><strong>Source of all Life<\/strong><\/em>. Love Incarnate. She did what you and I hope we, too, would have done. 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