{"id":848,"date":"2012-07-30T06:00:19","date_gmt":"2012-07-30T11:00:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/girlfriendscoffeehour.com\/?p=848"},"modified":"2013-01-24T17:39:27","modified_gmt":"2013-01-24T22:39:27","slug":"the-resolution-for-women-week-5-boxes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/girlfriendscoffeehour.com\/wordpress\/2012\/07\/30\/the-resolution-for-women-week-5-boxes\/","title":{"rendered":"The Resolution for Women: Week 5 – Boxes"},"content":{"rendered":"

Today, in The Resolution for Women, we talk about boxes. \u00a0Not the kind of boxes you bring your groceries home in, or the kind you pack your belongings in, or even the kind that you ship something in. \u00a0We are going to talk about the many boxes that women have in their lives, while still trying to achieve perfect balance in their life.<\/p>\n

Are you guilty of having too many boxes? \u00a0Before you can answer that, you have to know what that question means first. \u00a0What I am asking here is how many things you have going on in your life that is pulling you in this direction, and that direction, and making you feel like your life is so out of balance!!!<\/p>\n

Let’s take a look at our lives for a minute….. \u00a0How many boxes do we women have in our lives?<\/p>\n

1. \u00a0Box for the Lord<\/p>\n

2. Box for husband<\/p>\n

3. Box for children \/ children’s activities<\/p>\n

4. Box for taking care of home<\/p>\n

5. Box for work<\/p>\n

6. Box for family \/ friends<\/p>\n

7. Box for\u00a0church \/ ministry<\/p>\n

8. Box for Self<\/p>\n

9. Box for bible study<\/p>\n

10. Box for community outreach<\/p>\n

That’s ten different boxes, and that’s even with doubling some of them up into one box!<\/p>\n

We women have a lot of responsibilities in our lives! \u00a0Many different boxes to take care of. \u00a0As you can see just from the boxes above that include just normal life, there is real good reason to see how a woman can get stressed sometimes, especially if she is focusing in so many different boxes that she isn’t able to give completely to the boxes that are important.<\/p>\n

When we take on more than what God has called us to take on, our boxes begin to fall and crumble. \u00a0They don’t stay in their neat stack, the way God designed them to be. \u00a0When we don’t consider God’s priorities in our lives, we find ourselves having to move this box ahead of this one, and pushing that one behind another, and stressing because we really did need to do something with the original box, but now it needs to wait because you’ve fallen short in another box. \u00a0Can you see how this can happen??<\/p>\n

God has called us to have order in our lives. \u00a0He has called us to set priorities and boundaries so that we can live a life that is balanced and not in chaos; feeling as if we are being pulled in so many different directions, that we don’t even know which direction we are supposed to go anymore.<\/p>\n

So, how do we get our boxes neatly stacked and in order again? \u00a0You start by seeking God and what He wants as a priority in your life. \u00a0Then you start removing the boxes He says needs to go.<\/em> \u00a0If that means you don’t do as many bible studies or serve in as many ministries as you once did, then so be it. \u00a0God knows what will bring balance into your life; and He knows which bible studies you need\u00a0<\/strong><\/em>to be working on!<\/p>\n

Sometimes it is so easy to get caught up in what everyone else is doing, that we find ourselves involved in so many bible studies, or Facebook groups, outside activities, community events, and so on, that we find other areas of our life is suffering because we are spending so much unnecessary time on these other activities that God didn’t want us in, in the first place!<\/p>\n

Home life begins to suffer because we have so many different boxes that we are involved in. \u00a0Which is our main priority…home or ministry (also insert community events here)? \u00a0Your home is your first priority. \u00a0Your home is your ministry. \u00a0If your home is suffering because you are never home due to the number of ministries you are serving in, or other events you have volunteered for, you need to learn to start saying no. \u00a0God will find someone else to fill that position for that ministry or event, no doubt. \u00a0You do not have to do it all. \u00a0You are not Superwoman! \u00a0We like to think we are….but we are not!<\/p>\n

Another thing to consider about being out of balance is that once we stretch ourselves into so many different boxes, we begin to get weaker. \u00a0Think of a rubber band. \u00a0Before the rubber band is stretched, it has a lot of strength and resistance. \u00a0But the more and more we stretch the rubber band, the less strength and resistance it has, and sooner or later it snaps!!<\/p>\n

Spreading yourself too thin and into more and more of what God has not called you to do is like stretching your own rubber band. \u00a0The more boxes you put into your life, the further and further you are being stretched. \u00a0The further and further your rubber band is stretched, the less strength and resistance you have; the more health problems you begin to have; the more chaos you will see at home; and so on….and sooner or later, YOU WILL SNAP!! \u00a0Then what good are you to anyone, especially God??<\/p>\n

Ladies, it’s time to take a serious look at our lives and the boxes we have lined up in front of us with our name on it. \u00a0It’s time to start seeking God and asking Him which box you can close and put it away neatly until He calls you to take that box out again. \u00a0It’s time to set some priorities. \u00a0It’s time to say no to some things, even if they look fun or popular!! \u00a0It’s time to step away from the things in our lives that is sucking the life out of us. \u00a0It’s time to start taking back your life, your family, your time with God, and time for yourself!!<\/p>\n

Priscilla says on page 91, “Balance is not when the boxes are equally filled but when we are free to fill only those that are important for now, without feeling guilt over the ones that we’ve left for another time and place. \u00a0This is balance, little sister. \u00a0Remember it.”<\/p>\n

____________________<\/p>\n

Let’s pray:\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Father, we seek You today and ask Lord that You show us the boxes in our lives that need to be removed and stored away for another time in our life. \u00a0Father we ask that You give us wisdom as we review the areas in our lives that may be causing us to become out of balance, and give us direction on how to close these boxes. \u00a0Lord, help us to say no, when we need to say no. \u00a0Help us to not feel guilty, or that we are letting someone down if we don’t say yes. \u00a0Help us to achieve the kind of balance that YOU want in our lives; the kind that will bring us the peace that we so desire Lord. \u00a0Father, help us to put our priorities back into perspective, once again. \u00a0In Jesus’ Name, AMEN.<\/span><\/p>\n

Your Assignment:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Share below which boxes you currently have in your life. \u00a0How many different boxes are you handling? \u00a0Then ask the Lord which box(es) He wants you to remove from your life, to help you find more balance. \u00a0In the comments section below, share which box(es) that is, and how you plan to put that box away for now. \u00a0How will you find balance in your life so that you are more able to serve Him.<\/span><\/p>\n

After you have completed this assignment here, go back to your Facebook Online Bible Study Group, and see what fun activity we have for you there! \u00a0You never now what we will come up with!! \u00a0If you do not belong to a Online Bible Study Group, and would like to, please email us at GirlfriendsCoffeeHour@gmail.com, and we will be happy to add you!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Be Blessed,<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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