{"id":656,"date":"2012-07-12T06:00:54","date_gmt":"2012-07-12T11:00:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/girlfriendscoffeehour.com\/?p=656"},"modified":"2013-01-24T17:21:45","modified_gmt":"2013-01-24T22:21:45","slug":"the-resolution-for-women-role-reversal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/girlfriendscoffeehour.com\/wordpress\/2012\/07\/12\/the-resolution-for-women-role-reversal\/","title":{"rendered":"The Resolution For Women – Role Reversal"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Memory verse:<\/h3>\n

Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Proverbs 31:30<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Remember the feminist movement in the 60’s and early 70’s? The one where women wanted and demanded equality with men? They burned their bras in protest, stating the\u00a0bras represented being constricted and confined. Some of those women really, really, should have kept theirs on, know what I mean? Anyway the girdles, bras, and pantyhose came off. \u00a0This is how the women were going to “show those men that they were no longer going to be confined!”. \u00a0Now I’m not really understanding how this was going to “show the men” because the men LIKED the women going bra-less, you know how men can be…..<\/p>\n

Anyway, to my point, ever since this movement, women have been demanding equality with men; the ability to participate in previously male-dominated sports (football, basketball, hockey), equal pay in their careers (I agree with this one as a woman who is doing the same job as a man SHOULD receive the same pay),the ability to become licensed and ordained ministers and priests, congressmen, president, the right to work outside the home, etc. Women fought for the right to do anything a man could do. Remember the commercial where the woman “could bring home the bacon, and fry it up in a pan, and never, ever, them him forget he was a man?”<\/p>\n

We’ve come a long way baby, but still have a ways to go. Yet in my opinion, it’s gotten out of hand. This chapter Role Reversal is a good one, as is the whole book. I was watching a TV show last week where the wife was a realtor working very long hours and bringing \u00a0in a lot of money. The husband called himself a “stay-at-home dad”, took care of the kids, cleaned the house, ironed, did the grocery shopping, cooked dinner, massaged his wife, and ran her bath daily, and she made all the major decisions. Before you ask “where can I order one of these?” think about this…..what is wrong with this picture according to the Word of God? Don’t get me wrong, if you must work outside of the home, you must. No judging, this is MY choice.<\/p>\n

Ephesians 5:22-23 says that we are to submit to our husbands, not vice versa. \u00a0Now don’t get me wrong here, my Gorgeous Husband does all the above (with the exception of the bath), but this is not his primary role, it’s mine as the homemaker. \u00a0HOMEmaker, not house wife. To me a house wife just cleans the house, a homemaker makes a home. Yes we clean, cook, etc. but we’re the nucleus of the family. Ever heard of the expression “if mama ain’t happy, ain’t NObody happy!” \u00a0It’s our job to pray over, teach, lead, guide, minister to, and love on our family. The godly woman’s touch if you would.<\/p>\n

Now while doing all of this we are under our husband’s prayerfully, godly authority, we’re to submit to our husbands. To not do so is rebelling, and rebelling is as witchcraft. (1 Samuel 15:23)<\/p>\n

Is this always easy? Nope! Sometimes we’re right, and they’re wrong. We agree to disagree so that we’re in agreement, and seek our Father’s face for direction (remember the triangle I talked about in the conference call?) For those of you who weren’t on it: take both your thumbs and put them together tip to tip, next take your index fingers and put them together to form a triangle, you and your hubby are the left or right side, from the knuckle. God is the top as He should be, when you or your hubby are discussing, (look from left to right at your thumbs), and you don’t agree, one (or both) take it to the Lord, (go up from corner of triangle to the top of your finger), pray and talk to Him asking who is right and to minister to you both, then God ministers to your husband (look down from the top of triangle down to your left (husband), he “gets it”, then talks to you ( look left to right)and all is well!<\/p>\n

God designed our husbands to be our spiritual head, our covering, our protectors. When we wrongfully try to assume that role we are out of God’s will, off balance, and out of order. Read Ephesians again: “Wives be subject to your own husbands, as TO THE LORD” (emphasis mine). “As to the Lord”, so not only are we being submissive to our husbands, but we must do it as unto the Lord! We don’t want to disrespect our Adonai do we?! \u00a0We want to be obedient to God, being submissive to Him.<\/p>\n

Those of you whose husbands are not saved, or are not walking with the Lord as they should be, THIS is what you think of when you’re being submissive to your husbands, that you are doing it as unto the Lord, to and for HIM, God. \u00a0God will bless and honor your obedience. Your husbands heart will be changed, “Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if some do not obey the Word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives….”1 Peter 3:1<\/p>\n

Also read Titus 2:5, 1 Corinthians 11:3, and Proverbs 31:10-31. Being submissive to your husband doesn’t mean you’re a doormat. You have a mind and a mouth. \u00a0We’re to be our husbands partners and helpmates. \u00a0God blesses us with wisdom and discernment as we minister to our men. \u00a0They in turn have responsibilities towards us: 1 Peter 3:7 and Ephesians 5:28-29.<\/p>\n

As Priscilla said, if you are being abused do not accept it! \u00a0This is not of God and please seek help whether it be your pastor, a counselor, or local police. \u00a0Get help!<\/p>\n

Let’s get back to our rightful roles according to the Word of God. \u00a0It does not make us meek and mild, on the contrary, our role is critical to our family and to our household. God has entrusted\u00a0us with an awesome and beautiful responsibility, let’s walk in our roles! <3<\/p>\n

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Let’s Pray:<\/p>\n

Adonai, I lift my Gorgeous Girlfriends to you in love. \u00a0I ask You to minister, lead and guide them in Your \u00a0Way and Your Truth. Open the eyes of their hearts so they may know and understand You and the roles and responsibilities You have placed on them, yet You wouldn’t have them do this without Your help. Minister to their husbands\u00a0 so they understand and actually do what You’ve called THEM to do, all to Your glory. In Jesus’ Name I pray, Amen.<\/p>\n

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Our 2nd Resolution<\/h2>\n

Purposefully Feminine<\/h3>\n

I will champion God’s model for womanhood in the face of a post feminist culture.<\/p>\n

I will teach it to my daughters and encourage its support to my sons.<\/p>\n

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I’ll sign this. \u00a0Will you?<\/p>\n

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