{"id":6373,"date":"2012-12-31T00:30:21","date_gmt":"2012-12-31T06:30:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/girlfriendscoffeehour.com\/?p=6279"},"modified":"2012-12-31T00:30:21","modified_gmt":"2012-12-31T06:30:21","slug":"fan-or-follower-and-meet-miss-rachel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/girlfriendscoffeehour.com\/wordpress\/2012\/12\/31\/fan-or-follower-and-meet-miss-rachel\/","title":{"rendered":"FAN OR FOLLOWER? and MEET MISS RACHEL!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/girlfriendscoffeehour.com\/2012\/12\/27\/get-ready-2013-is-almost-here\/acceptjesus_new\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-6196\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/69.89.31.171\/~girlfrk8\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/acceptjesus_new.jpg?w=300\" alt=\"acceptJesus_New\" width=\"300\" height=\"294\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-6196\" \/><\/a>Hey ALL!  It feels so good to blog again for my sweet friends at GCH: decaf!! I have been going through withdrawal!  I hope everyone has had a beautiful Christmas and I pray everyone has a safe and happy evening ringing in the new YEAR!  I am so pumped to start the not a fan study!  I am even more pumped to introduce to you one of our very own Online Bible Study participants and my new friend, Rachel!  If you are wondering what not a fan is all about and if you are just as excited as I was to get to know Rachel a little more then read on dear readers\u2026<br \/>\n\u201cnot a fan\u201d\u2026those words bring back some really great memories for me!  I did the not a fan study with my small group a while back.  It was brought into my life at just the right time-thank you Jesus.  It makes me laugh because as we were doing this study and even after it was over you could constantly hear me say to just about everyone I encountered that this study changed my life!  Some friends constantly teased me that I was being so dramatic.  However, what those friends seemed to not realize is saying that this study changed my life was an understatement.  You see, during this study, I learned to let God into this study with me.  I let God change me!  People can think what they want, dramatic or not, when God changes you there is this huge desire you get to let everyone know what it is God has done in your life, right?<br \/>\n There were so many burdens in my life that I was carrying on my cross when I did this study.  I wanted so desperately to be free from these burdens, but they were so much a part of me I did not know how to break free.  Then, I did it.  I followed God into therapy.  I gave Him EVERYTHING even the parts of me I had been holding onto for so long for fear that if I gave them up I wouldn\u2019t be \u201cme\u201d anymore.  The best thing happened, I put everything that belonged on His cross there and I finally became the \u201cme\u201d I was so scared of becoming\u2026the \u201cme\u201d that God created me to be.  That same day I vowed to take up my cross each day and follow Jesus just like it says in the Bible in Matthew 16:24 Then Jesus said to his disciples, &#8220;If any of you wants to be my follower, you must turn from your selfish ways, take up your cross, and follow me.<br \/>\nThis verse is mentioned a lot in the not a fan study.  It is one of those verses that make you stop what you are doing and think to yourself, \u201cam I a follower of Jesus?  To be a follower we must turn from the things in our life that are keeping us from God, we must give up our entire life for God as He did for us on HIS cross that dreary day, and follow His desires and plans for our lives, follow His truth that is shared with us in His Living Word.  Rachel explains this perfectly when I asked her what her thoughts were, so read on!<br \/>\nI can confidently tell you (without an ounce of convincing) that I am a follower of Jesus.  Pre-study, I would not have been able to say that with confidence\u2014can you see why I was so excited to share what God changed me to be through this study; one of his followers?  Now, your turn, can you say with confidence and without an ounce of convincing that you surely are a follower of Jesus?  Whatever your answer may be, I am excited to start this journey with you.  A journey in which we give up our lives to receive God\u2019s strength, healing, and freedom through what Jesus has done for us on HIS CROSS.<br \/>\nOne of the girls going on this journey with us would be Miss. Rachel.  I had so much fun talking back and forth with this amazing GOD GIRL earlier today.  She inspires me.  She is only 15 and \u00be (even though she told me 15 1\/2) and she really gets God.  She knows the importance of having a relationship with God and embraces that.  I am so glad to have \u201cmet her\u201d even though we have never really met!  I had some very important questions to ask Miss. Rachel and it just so happens that through her answers I learned we have a lot in common (especially our frustration with prematurely hitting enter while sending a facebook message, they really need to change that)!  Any time I meet a sister in Christ I can be guaranteed that we will have one thing in common: our love for Christ and that is just the best thing to have in common!  Here is how our conversation went.  Enjoy getting to know Rachel, she is one fascinating young lady!  Thank you Jesus for bringing her to GCH: decaf!<br \/>\nME: What city and state do you live in?<br \/>\nRACHEL: Murfreesboro, TN<br \/>\nME: Who is your favorite Christian artist?<br \/>\nRACHEL: Flyleaf<br \/>\nME: What is your favorite movie of all time?<br \/>\nRACHEL: Meet the Robinsons<br \/>\nME: What is your favorite style of clothes, accessories, shoes, etc?<br \/>\nRACHEL: Sophisticated stuff medium length flowy dresses<br \/>\nME: What is your favorite thing to do with friends?<br \/>\nRACHEL: Sleepovers and mainly just talking&#8212;-this is Diane speaking: oh ya, girl after my own heart!!<br \/>\nOk this is the question that Rachel answered which made my heart smile HUGELY<br \/>\nME: What is one thing that changed your life?<br \/>\nRACHEL:  One thing&#8230; well I started going to World Outreach Church last May. At first I wasn&#8217;t excited, but I think it&#8217;s helped in my relationship with God, with me going there and stuff I hope that\u2019s good!<br \/>\nGood??  Rachel, that is amazing!<br \/>\nHere are Rachel\u2019s wise thoughts on what it means to be a follower of Jesus and what it means to be a fan of Jesus\u2026We would love to hear what your thoughts are, share in the comment section below or in our group\u2026can\u2019t wait to hear from you!<br \/>\nA follower?  Well we just talked about that last month at church. For me, I guess, a follower of Christ would be choosing to be like Him. Of course, perfection is out of the question but that doesn&#8217;t mean you can\u2019t strive to make yourself better, with God&#8217;s help. A fan is &#8220;an enthusiastic admirer.&#8221; They aren&#8217;t willing to give EVERYTHING up for Him.<br \/>\nI do not think I could say it any more perfectly Rachel!!  Thanks for sharing with us!!  I had so much fun talking with Rachel.  As we prepare our hearts for this study, I am excited to continue to get to know each and every one of you!<\/p>\n<p>************************************************************<br \/>\nIf you are interested in joining us in our GCH:decaf  Teen Girls Ministry, please click the sign-up form button at the top of our webpage. Just follow the instructions on the form and hit submit. We\u2019ll be happy to add you to one of our Online Bible Study Groups! Please email GCH_Decaf@girlfriendscoffeehour.com for more information.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hey ALL! It feels so good to blog again for my sweet friends at GCH: decaf!! I have been going through withdrawal! I hope everyone has had a beautiful Christmas and I pray everyone has a safe and happy evening ringing in the new YEAR! 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