Ten years ago, I found myself single and pregnant. With fear strapped to my leg like a chain, all I could think of was a future as an unwed mother. My daughter\u2019s father, my boyfriend at the time, proposed marriage and I accepted. Throughout the next few months I felt something nagging at my spirit. Something just\u00a0didn’t\u00a0feel right. I ignored it for a while longer. At one point I could no longer pretend that the feeling\u00a0wasn’t\u00a0there, and I had to face the truth. I was being impatient, I was grasping at the life I felt I should have rather than waiting to see what God wanted for me in this situation. I needed to check my motives, I needed to step back and pray about the situation, and I needed to trust God.<\/p>\n
The marriage\u00a0didn’t\u00a0happen. We went our separate ways, and although my daughter\u00a0doesn’t\u00a0have a relationship with her biological father, I feel in my heart that the impatient decision I was about to make would have had much more dire consequences than living as a single mom. Thinking about what could have been scares me.<\/p>\n
When you\u2019re facing the possibility of making an impatient decision do you take the time to step back and look at the possible consequences. Do you seek God and inquire of what He wants for your life? I\u00a0didn’t\u00a0until it was almost too late. The bible is very clear in saying that our decision will affect our family generations to come.<\/p>\n
Exodus 34:7<\/i><\/strong><\/p>\n \u2026<\/i>that will by no means clear the guilty; visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the children, and upon the children’s children, unto the third and to the fourth generation.<\/i><\/p>\n Is this a chance we\u2019re willing to take?<\/p>\n Even if children are never involved, is the possibility of not being able to share your love of Christ with your spouse a life you desire? In order for a man to truly know our heart he must first know God, if he doesn\u2019t know God, he will never truly know you. \u00a0An impatient decision can jeopardize the blessings God has planned for our lives.<\/p>\n \u00a0Deuteronomy 28:2<\/i><\/strong><\/p>\n And all these blessings shall come upon you and overtake you, because you obey the voice of the<\/i>\u00a0<\/i>Lord<\/i>\u00a0<\/i>your God:<\/i><\/p>\n Deuteronomy 28:15<\/i><\/strong><\/p>\n \u201cBut it shall come to pass, if you do not obey the voice of the<\/i>\u00a0<\/i>Lord<\/i>\u00a0<\/i>your God, to observe carefully all His commandments and His statutes which I command you today, that all these curses will come upon you and overtake you.<\/i><\/p>\n When a decision arises that needs to be made, take the time to seek God, listen for His voice and for His direction. And always remember that He protects our heart, He only wants the best for us, including our future husband. \u00a0Don\u2019t take the risk, and wait for his blessing.<\/p>\n With Love,<\/p>\n Tonya Ellison<\/p>\n ____________________________<\/b><\/p>\n \u00a0<\/b>Lets Pray:<\/b><\/p>\n Dear Heavenly Father, your words are clear, your warnings and your promises are plainly written. When we are facing a decision that we are going to make with an impatient heart, please Lord touch our hearts and minds so that we are not able to ignore your\u00a0urging\u00a0 Remind us that your promises and blessings are meant for our benefit. And that our impatient decisions will have consequences, consequences that not only affect us but those around us, consequences that will affect our futures. Instead I pray that we seek your will, and that we trust your plans. Thank you for planning our futures, thank you for protecting our hearts. \u00a0In Jesus\u2019 name I pray amen.<\/p>\n ____________________________<\/b><\/p>\n Your Assignment: <\/b><\/p>\n I refer to scripture a lot. I feel that the answer to every question, problem and possible impatient decision is held in that wonderful book. So, what scriptures do you go to when you are faced with a decision, when you\u2019re unsure of what to do?<\/p>\n