This was another difficult chapter for me this week and I kept struggling with what God would have me to share with all of you. God is beginning to open buried places inside me that I have buried for years and I know that I have tried to be the “perfect” wife over all these years instead of what God showed me thru this lesson which is “Beverly I want you to be the authentic wife”, the woman who shows her true self that you were the day you said “I do”. \u00a0 The one I want your husband to “see” because when he “sees” that, he will then see “me”. \u00a0 Oh what an epiphany He showed me tonite about how sometimes I do just “show” God instead of “live” God in front of my husband.<\/p>\n
In today\u2019s lesson, we find a very interesting illustration. \u00a0God tells Jeremiah to buy a new linen belt and wear it around his waist. At that time, a linen belt was an intimate piece of clothing, comparable to the underwear of today. \u00a0After Jeremiah wore the belt, God directed him to take it off and hide it in some rocks near a river. \u00a0Several days later, God told Jeremiah to return to Perath and retrieve the belt.<\/p>\n
After sitting in the elements, the belt that was once perfect<\/i><\/b> and clean was ruined and completely useless.<\/p>\n
The belt was symbolic of the people of Judah. \u00a0They were once a people who were close to God, just as the belt was once close to Jeremiah. \u00a0Over time, the people of Judah allowed pride to come into their hearts, and this pride was as damaging to the people of Judah as the elements were to the belt. \u00a0Eventually, that pride ruined them and rendered them completely useless to God.<\/p>\n
If we are not careful, \u00a0we will be like the people of Judah in our marriages, we can allow the \u201celements\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/b> to damage our relationship with our husband. \u00a0We can start to feel alone, left out, like we are just two people living in the same home together but separate and pretty soon, we end up ruined and completely useless as someone who can reach inside our husbands lives and hearts. \u00a0\u00a0 We need to make sure we \u201cstop and pay attention\u201d to what we are saying and doing in our marriage and being sure we are being the living representation of Christ in our homes.<\/p>\n That doesn\u2019t mean being perfect, it means being authentic!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n As I was with my mom and sister this weekend during one of our bible study evenings my mom broke down and shared some things in her life that happened about 50 years ago that she had no idea that either of us knew, it was so relieving to finally hear her tell this story.\u00a0\u00a0 I have been knowing this about 15 years, however, she had no idea that I knew.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 She finally had some break thru moments that evening, because she was being \u201cauthentic\u201d with us after all these years.<\/p>\n Here are a few things that came to my mind as I studied this lesson that I think we need to be reflecting and showing our husbands:<\/p>\n Understand I know that some of our husbands may not want to hear these things, but if we approach him at the right time and in the right demeanor (meaning we have taken it to God first before we hit him with it)\u00a0\u00a0 I truly believe he will be more receptive to hearing our authentic selves and not the pretend tiptoeing around spouse we are currently being.\u00a0\u00a0 As Dineen shared with us; I also know that many of us don\u2019t have the freedoms to voice our beliefs to our husband but we can live boldly through our actions, and through knowing Christ is there with us thru every moment to speak to us and lead the decisions and our words.<\/p>\n Let\u2019s pray:<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n God I pray for each lady this week as we stop and pay attention to what each day and each moment in our marriage is saying to us and that You help us to be effective\u00a0 \u201cfine linen belts\u201d in our homes. In your name I pray. Amen!<\/p>\n Your assignment:<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n Dineen shared with us that she asked God to connect the dots with this story He gave her in this chapter about how it related to being unequally yoked, and He gave her a picture of how the believing spouse can be that fine linen belt\u2026.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 So after you read this lesson “trading perfection for authenticity” did God show you something specific to help “you” connect dots for your marriage, if so would you share your thoughts with us today.<\/p>\n \u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n For the \u201cWinning Him Without Words\u201d Bible Study, you will need the book, your Bible, pen or pencil, a highlighter and a quiet place. 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