{"id":24328,"date":"2015-02-09T00:20:55","date_gmt":"2015-02-09T05:20:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/girlfriendscoffeehour.com\/?p=24328"},"modified":"2015-02-09T01:19:48","modified_gmt":"2015-02-09T06:19:48","slug":"selfless-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/girlfriendscoffeehour.com\/wordpress\/2015\/02\/09\/selfless-love\/","title":{"rendered":"Selfless Love"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/girlfriendscoffeehour.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/SeekingHimLogo.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-13840\" src=\"http:\/\/girlfriendscoffeehour.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/SeekingHimLogo.jpg\" alt=\"SeekingHimLogo\" width=\"560\" height=\"280\" srcset=\"https:\/\/girlfriendscoffeehour.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/SeekingHimLogo.jpg 560w, https:\/\/girlfriendscoffeehour.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/SeekingHimLogo-300x150.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 560px) 100vw, 560px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #008080;\"><span id=\"en-NIV-28670\" class=\"text 1Cor-13-4\">Love is patient,<span style=\"font-size: small;\"><span style=\"line-height: 19px;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span>love is kind.<br \/>\n<\/span><span id=\"en-NIV-28670\" class=\"text 1Cor-13-4\">It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.<br \/>\n<\/span><span id=\"en-NIV-28671\" class=\"text 1Cor-13-5\">It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking,<br \/>\n<\/span><span id=\"en-NIV-28671\" class=\"text 1Cor-13-5\">it is not easily angered,\u00a0it keeps no record of wrongs.<\/span><span id=\"en-NIV-28672\" class=\"text 1Cor-13-6\"><sup class=\"versenum\"><br \/>\n<\/sup>Love does not delight in evil<span style=\"font-size: small;\"><span style=\"line-height: 19px;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span>but rejoices with the truth.<br \/>\n<\/span><span id=\"en-NIV-28673\" class=\"text 1Cor-13-7\">It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.<br \/>\n<\/span>Love never fails.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #008080;\">1 Corinthians 13:4-8<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Selfless love is love that is not self-centered. \u00a0What do I mean by self-centered? \u00a0That is, <span style=\"color: #008080;\"><em>thinking of oneself instead of others.\u00a0<\/em><\/span> Examples of self-centered minds are like the ones below.<br \/>\n\u2022 If it is s blessings&#8230;then let me be the first to receive; forgetting we are \u201c&#8230;more blessed to give than to receive.\u201d<br \/>\n\u2022 If it is a prize someone received, you ask question \u2018why them and not me?\u2019 and then pick an offence with others in the process.<br \/>\n\u2022 In a family you want your decisions only to be applicable and do not care about others, i.e., spouse or children.<br \/>\n\u2022 No conscience when you wrong a person instead of saying \u2018sorry\u2019<br \/>\n\u2022 Can\u2019t compliment another after they have done something that is good.<\/p>\n<p>Rather, <span style=\"color: #008080;\"><strong>selfless love<\/strong><\/span> must always&#8230;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline; color: #008080;\">Think of others first and you will be more blessed.<\/span><br \/>\n[Abraham and Lot]<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Is not the whole land before you? Separate yourself from me.<br \/>\nIf you take the left hand,<br \/>\nthen I will go to the right, or if you take the right hand,<br \/>\nthen I will go to the left.<br \/>\nGenesis 13:9<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><span style=\"color: #008080; text-decoration: underline;\">Not keep record of wrongs, is always kind<\/span><\/span><br \/>\n[Joseph and his brothers]<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u201cNo, don\u2019t be afraid. I will continue to take care of you and your children.\u201d<br \/>\nSo he reassured them by speaking kindly to them.<br \/>\nGenesis 50:21<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline; color: #008080;\">Not envious <\/span><br \/>\n[Moses]<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">But Moses replied \u201cAre you jealous for my sake?<br \/>\nI wish that all the Lords people were prophets and that the Lord would put his Spirit on them!\u201d<br \/>\nNumbers 11:29<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><span style=\"color: #008080; text-decoration: underline;\">Protects<\/span> <\/span><br \/>\n[Paul]<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Even as I try to please everybody in every way.<br \/>\nFor I am not seeking my own good<br \/>\nbut the good of many so that they may be saved.<br \/>\n1 Corinthians 10:33<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><span style=\"color: #008080; text-decoration: underline;\">Perseveres<\/span> <\/span><br \/>\n[Jesus Christ]<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">For you know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that though He was rich,<br \/>\nyet for your sake He became poor,<br \/>\nso that you through His poverty might become rich.<br \/>\n2 Corinthians 8:9<\/p>\n<p>As believers let us encourage one another to have <strong><span style=\"color: #008080;\">selfless<\/span> <\/strong>love and do as the Word says in the passage (1 Corinthians 13:4-8) we are focusing on this week. \u00a0We were made in His own likeness and so we have to show the likeliness of God. \u00a0In whatever we do, how we speak, the way we carry ourselves&#8230;let those who see us thank God and turn to God. We should not grieve the Spirit with our deeds and cause the name of the Lord to not be worshipped.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #008080;\"> * \u00a0~ \u00a0\u2665 \u00a0~ \u00a0\u271e \u00a0~ \u00a0\u2665 \u00a0~ \u00a0*<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Oh Lord, my God, how wonderful You are! \u00a0You loved us and gave us Christ so we are co-heirs in your Kingdom. \u00a0Renew our minds that we should not be conformed to the things of the world but represent Christ in all we do. \u00a0Let us bear love that is selfless, Lord. \u00a0In Jesus\u2019 name, I pray, Amen.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Love is patient,\u00a0love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered,\u00a0it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil\u00a0but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 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