{"id":15573,"date":"2013-11-04T00:01:40","date_gmt":"2013-11-04T06:01:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/girlfriendscoffeehour.com\/?p=15573"},"modified":"2013-11-04T09:11:12","modified_gmt":"2013-11-04T15:11:12","slug":"16-day-love-challenge-patience","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/girlfriendscoffeehour.com\/wordpress\/2013\/11\/04\/16-day-love-challenge-patience\/","title":{"rendered":"16 Day Love Challenge: Chapter 1 – Patience"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"16daypatience\"<\/a><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

To Walk or Stay<\/strong><\/h3>\n

I have a friend who is struggling with a situation in her life. The enemy is trying his best to steal, kill, and destroy all that she has. In the midst of this, God is reaching out to her and asking if she will walk in patience<\/em> with Him. Will she give Him the time needed to turn this around?<\/p>\n

We understand patience<\/em> when the context is to be patient<\/em> with our loved ones or others. But to be patient<\/em> with God for the purpose of giving Him time to turn our situation around\u2014this is asking a lot of a person, especially when they are looking back as a witness on the destruction of something that was once so promising.<\/p>\n

I wonder if this post has found you in a place where God is asking you the same question: \u201cDo you have the strength (patience<\/em>) to turn to Me and let Me walk you through this?\u201d<\/p>\n

One of the most powerful things I have learned in my walk with God is that my trials tend to unmask my weaknesses. Once my weaknesses are revealed, I am left with a decision to make.<\/p>\n

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Will I walk away from the person and the situation or can I stand still and let God work to save my relationship?<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

In my pain and anger, I feel walking away would be the easy decision. After all, I have been hurt by this person and have a right to walk away. Entangled in my thoughts of leaving, I hear God\u2019s voice softly speak to my heart.<\/p>\n

The thing I LOVE about God is the fact that He is not demanding. He understands the hurt we have been through. He gets that our hearts can only take so much. So He gently asks us, \u201cWill you walk away or can you stand still and wait for Me to turn your situation around?<\/em>\u201d James tells us why we should consider God\u2019s request:<\/p>\n

This you know, my beloved brethren. But let everyone be quick to hear,
\nslow to speak and slow to anger; for the anger of man
\ndoes not achieve the righteousness of God.
\nJames 1:19-20<\/p>\n

Our anger (though understandable) will not achieve the righteousness God is looking for. He wants to develop Righteousness<\/em> in our character and will use our trial as the vehicle to use when we are willing. Standing still means we are willing to not only be patient<\/em> with Him, it says we are willing to recognize our weaknesses and walk through them -one by one.<\/p>\n

Facing our unrighteousness can be tough. Sometimes this reveals where we are wrong in the situation. Facing ourselves means we are putting a Holy mirror in front of us. God\u2019s Holiness reveals the areas we need to change. But God gives strength to those who are willing to be patient<\/em> with Him…<\/p>\n

But those who wait on the Lord Shall renew their strength;
\nThey shall mount up with wings like eagles,
\nThey shall run and not be weary,
\nThey shall walk and not faint.
\nIsaiah 40:31<\/p>\n

God\u2019s Word tells us that if we will wait on the Lord, He will renew our strength. We will mount up with wings like eagles. God spoke to my heart once again as I read this verse. Mounting up with wings<\/em> is a promise to those of us who choose to walk in patience<\/em> with Him to the end. The wings represent flight, or an easy flow of things. Once we overcome one of our weaknesses, the road ahead will be so much easier to navigate. Our character is strengthened and our relationship has the chance to turn around, as God is now able to use us as His vessels.<\/p>\n

To the one who is reading this post and facing a trial of your own, I ask you the question: Will you walk or will you stand?<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0<\/em>I pray you will choose to stand and let God turn your situation around.<\/p>\n

* * * * * * *<\/p>\n

Here are a few more verses to further encourage you:<\/p>\n

And let us not lose heart in doing good,
\nfor in due time we shall reap if we do not grow weary.
\nGalatians 6:9<\/p>\n

And we urge you, brethren, admonish the unruly,
\nencourage the fainthearted, help the weak, be patient<\/em> with all men.
\n1 Thessalonians 5:14<\/p>\n

Rest in the LORD and wait patiently<\/em> for Him;
\nDo not fret because of him who prospers in his way,
\nBecause of the man who carries out wicked schemes.
\nCease from anger, and forsake wrath;
\nDo not fret, it leads only to evildoing.
\nFor evildoers will be cut off,
\nBut those who wait for the LORD, they will inherit the land.
\nPsalms 37:7-9<\/p>\n

Cease striving and know that I am God;
\nI will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth.
\nPsalm 46:10<\/p>\n

I, therefore, the prisoner of the Lord, entreat you to walk
\nin a manner worthy of the calling with which you have been called,
\nwith all humility and gentleness, with patience<\/em>,
\nshowing forbearance to one another in love,
\nEphesians 4:1-2<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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