We live in a very busy world. I know I can personally attest to that. We look at our schedule or our smartphone and we see “the list.” We wonder if we will have time to get from work to appointment A on time, and then will there be time to eat before class B starts? There is work, friends, family, ourselves…oh! and God. Where do you put yourself on that list? More importantly, where do you put God?
The key to enhancing your relationship with God is a simple one. You need to spend time with Him. Think about it, it makes perfect sense. If you have an acquaintance you want to get to know better, what do you do? You talk to them, hang out with them, get to know them, and possibly become friends. If you have a man you are interested in, you date them, talk to them, learn more about them, and it can possibly lead to a more intimate relationship. Isn’t that what we want? Intimacy with our Lord?
What exactly is intimacy? According to Dictionary.com intimacy is “a close, familiar, and usually affectionate or loving personal relationship with another person or group.” Yes! That is what I want! I want an affectionate, loving, personal relationship with God! And the amazing thing is that it is ours for the taking! He offers it freely and with no strings. All we have to do is spend time with Him, and it’s ours. Wait. Spend time with Him. Time? Who has that to spare? That in it’s essence is the problem. God doesn’t deserve our “spare time.” God deserves to be a priority. He should be coming first on that daily to-do list. No exceptions, no excuses. I know…I get it…I am a single mom. I have to-do lists as long as my arm and leg. I run my home. I run ministries. I have my own business. Trust me, I get it!
Sometimes we have to get creative with our time, and sometimes we need to get out of our comfort zones. I am not a morning person by any stretch of the imagination. But at the same time, I am exhausted by the end of the day, so I had to make a decision. What I do is get up at 5:30 in the morning so I can have my quiet time with the Lord before I have to get my son up for school and the craziness of the day begins. Do I LIKE getting up that early? No. No matter how long I have been doing it, it’s still no fun when that alarm goes off. But is the tradeoff worth it? Without a doubt! That quiet time with God is what sets my day straight. There may be a day I miss, and it may not seem like too big of a deal, but let that one morning turn into 2 or 3, or even more, and it only means trouble. I can feel a difference. Something will be nagging at me, or I will feel burdened and I won’t know why until I realize that it has been 4 days since I spent time with God, and then it’s like “Duh! No wonder!!” It makes a difference.
So now I ask you to look in the mirror. Where has God been on your list of priorities? No matter the answer, there is a beautiful reality. It’s ok. Whether He has been at number one, or He has been relegated to “if I have time,” God is still there, He is still waiting for you. He is not mad, or standing with a checklist checking off how many days you have spent with Him. He is just waiting for you to come back. He loves you! He longs to spend that time with you, and He will delight in you the very second you return to Him. That is so comforting to me. If you don’t already, I hope you will set aside the time you need to spend with Your Father. The change you will feel will be worth it. Intimacy with Our Savior? What could be better?
Dear Lord, we long for an intimate relationship with You. Please help us to clear our schedules and make the time we need to spend with You. Sometimes it seems too hard in the craziness of life to set aside time. Help us in our weariness, in our busyness, even in our laziness to realize that You are worth it, and that intimacy with You is timeless. We love You, Lord, and we thank You for Your never-wavering faithfulness. In Your Name, we pray. Amen.
Share your routine for spending quiet time with the Lord. Do you have a specific time each day? Does it change depending on the day? If you haven’t been spending time with Him regularly, share some strategies you can implement to make it more consistent.